Listen to the incomparable therapist Esther Perel counsel real couples as they reveal the most intimate, personal, and complicated details of the conflicts that have brought them to her door. This season Esther speaks to a constellation of new relationships: A couple wrestling with the guilt they feel over the happiness their infidelity created. Another trying to make space for their queerness in an outwardly appearing hetero relationship. A set of friends trying to sort out if their childhood friendship needs to continue into adulthood. And Esther checks back in with couples from seasons past to see where they are now as she creates a space for us to hear our own lives and struggles articulated in the stories of others. So....where should we begin?
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LuluReview
3 out of 5 stars
Fascinating
Esther is amazing. I love listening to her ask questions. What’s fascinating is how she leads clients to confront and explain their profound selfishness and they can’t see it ie Leaving your wife and 4 children to marry your mistress who was also married with two children. Stunned me. ‘How can you explain saying no to all the expectations and the values you purported to hold dear, and put your own personal pleasure ahead of the highest good of alllllll those lives?’ I’ll never stop listening, just to hear the protective parts of people run massive interference for their exiles.
JJulG
5 out of 5 stars
Grateful
Beautiful session! I love having the opportunity to listen to this and learn and grow as an individual and therapist. Thank you, Esther!
Sneezy567942
5 out of 5 stars
A gift to us!
I feel like I am getting free therapy!
Smileygoldfish
5 out of 5 stars
Grateful
Ester is so brilliant and intuitive. I feel so lucky to get to experience a little piece of her wisdom.
Customer 2547
5 out of 5 stars
5/19 episode ✨✨🔥
Esther’s gift of wisdom about relationships, mental health expertise, trauma-sensitivity, racial equity lens come out in this episode and preceding shows. I see myself… I see others … and I am grateful. PERIOD.
hnshsne s
5 out of 5 stars
Exactly what I needed to hear
Just finished “My orgasm is not just for me” and I’m sitting here dazzled. The beauty, openness, generosity & love these two guests showed, in addition to Esther’s exquisite sensitivity & perceptiveness—whew. It was such a privilege to hear their stories. I have been in deep anxiety & mourning for the future of reproductive & sexual freedom in America. Listening to Esther & guests hold sexual healing, love, culture, and creativity in such a place of honor was, again, a real privilege & something that will stay with and sustain me for a long time. Deep thanks to all involved. I am sure the ancestors are rejoicing!
TNapp12
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing
This latest episode, “Twice Married, to Each Other,” is definitely one to download and listen to multiple times. I find myself saying this often for most of Esther's episodes but this one FOR REAL! I often say, if I had this podcast and knew about Esther’s coaching and books 15 years ago, I’d still be married. She gives us much needed insight and perspective and tools to help. I simply can’t recommend this podcast enough. On behalf of my future husband, thank you. I’m forever changed.
KM98654
5 out of 5 stars
Love this podcast!
Thank you, Esther. I learn so much about my life and marriage through these sessions.
Emma Ruderman
5 out of 5 stars
brilliance
i’ve learned so much about how to look inward, and how to apply these conversations to my own dynamics and relationships!! thank you esther! the honesty and vulnerability reached in these episodes is breathtaking! the way you break down conversations has opened my mind to look at conversations almost as a script, and break down what we say line for line and see where things go awry. so amazing how a single word difference can completely alter a conversation!!!!!
pgagirl
5 out of 5 stars
She is brilliant
She puts things in a context that is absolutely brilliant and to the point. Life changing
HR$HLO
5 out of 5 stars
Deeply insightful and enlightening
Just about any listener, whether currently in a relationship or not, would benefit from listening to this podcast. She is remarkably skilled, compassionate, and experienced in this work. Though I never even liked “Dr. Phil,” she demonstrates that therapeutic interventions in the media can have substance.
Jggrier00722
5 out of 5 stars
Invaluable
I can’t even convey just how important the topics covered in this podcast are for Therapists. The episode, “I don’t mean to be mean,” completely tapped into a couple’s session that I had just this evening. This episode provided me guidance, validation, education, and understanding after the session ended and I began to think that I was maybe in over my head.
malia.d90x
5 out of 5 stars
So valuable!
I learn so many concepts of relationships and relate to so many of the couples interviewed. I love Love love listening! So thought provoking. I feel like I can draw so many things from this to help me in my marriage.
Conn Mel
4 out of 5 stars
Tips for life
Every conversation I take a new insight to consider how or if how I would apply in my relationships.
Slbunegin
1 out of 5 stars
Wish I could give less than one star…
This is the first review I have ever made on here after many years of trying new podcasts and typically I would remain silent, but this show infuriated me. Originally I was excited to listen based on her interview from the daily show with Trevor Noah, but after the first episode I was completely put off. I can see she is trying to be non-biased and have a prospective of her own, however (in my opinion) she gives such poor advise it seems likely she will do more harm than good. Please don’t listen to me if you enjoyed it.
fffrieda
5 out of 5 stars
So healing/helpful
I take away something useful from EVERY EPISODE. This podcast is amazing. Free therapy. Seriously.
stephnzmh
5 out of 5 stars
Love Esther!!!
Can you be my therapist?! I love Esther’s style of therapy, way to word her interventions, and overall curitosity for her clients… as a fellow therapist it’s a breath of fresh air to hear her work!
Jeltaher
5 out of 5 stars
Healthy voyeurism
Does everyone refer to Esther Perel as our new Dr Ruth Westheimer? The episode, “I don’t mean to be mean, but…” blew my mind. Also, the voyeur/witness format is amazing for podcasts.
AlizaEss
5 out of 5 stars
Life changing
Ester’s insights and re-framing make this podcast life changing for anyone interested in hearing and learning more about relationship patterns and personal growth.
simplymeintx
4 out of 5 stars
All I want for Xmas is Esther Perel
The therapist you KNOW would fix your life! Plain spoken and insightful Perel is perfection. If I can’t visit her office at least I can listen to her podcast.
judes-g
5 out of 5 stars
Tidbits of truth
Regardless of the topic & despite me thinking “this one is not really for me”, Esther consistently guides people to reframe their stories in ways that feel real, deep, yet understandable. There are always tidbits of truth for us all in each other’s stories & Esther is a skilled guide! Thank you for that!
AuraMar1272
3 out of 5 stars
Woke now
Even Esther couldn’t escape the culture. Such a shame. I’m Mexican; my husband white. I cannot imagine adding imaginary problems (privilege) into an already full of complexities relationship. I’m heart broken for any young women being brainwashed into believing this is something worth bringing into a romantic entanglement.
Sheeva T
5 out of 5 stars
Esther is my voice of reason
Listening to Esther speak from a loving place on topics is music to my soul. She provides a space for people be heard, accepted and loved. She is a light and a sweet melody 💕
C4500
3 out of 5 stars
My Partners Privilege
I love Esther but her feedback on this episode lacked significant antiracism and understanding about how white privilege is at play in this relationship. Her feedback was valid but also shaming in some ways to the Iranian woman. This couple needs to talk about privilege and how it’s at play in their relationship, and it’s not the woman’s responsibility to accept her partners privilege and feel gratitude for it. The woman was downtrodden at the end, having been loaded up further with responsibility to “accept her reality” rather than truly being heard and being given tools to approach a white world with greater confidence and resilience.
Melrnm
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing!!!
This marriage series is helping me so much!!! I want to listen to more of these! Liga changers. God bless you!
shan912013
5 out of 5 stars
AMAZING PODCAST!
I love her beautiful insights! ❤️ Thankful Ester Parell is sharing her voice, knowledge and heart. It is a gift 🎁
santaclams
5 out of 5 stars
Great pod, small quibble
Esther is phenomenal! I would love it if there could be better sound quality: for example, sometimes the guests are hard to hear, and sometimes it sounds like Esther’s mic is rubbing on clothing (?) and so forth. Can make it hard to listen.
Jayne-Norah
5 out of 5 stars
Beautiful conversations with great insight and perspective
I cannot say enough. My favorite podcast leaves with a little more wisdom than I had prior to listening. Thank you Ester Perel
Supadupasippy
5 out of 5 stars
Relatable on a Deeply Human Level
You may wonder why you would want to listen to a couple who seemingly has nothing in common with you or your situation. It’s because Esther has an incredibly honed skill of boiling down the challenges that we face in relationships to basic human needs and desires. She’s so good at connecting the dots and helps me to examine the stories I tell myself and also to have compassion to me and others. We are all reasonable when you get down to it! We all have rational reasons for why we do what we do. As someone who has been to therapy, I note that she is a little more assertive and I assume that’s because this is a one-time session and not how she would approach regular clients. She is egalitarian and will spend more time on the partner that thinks they’re innocent and doesn’t acknowledge their role in the dynamic.
Pamela/visualartist & writer
5 out of 5 stars
Generous. Riveting. Brave.
Incredible generosity of openness from Esther Perel and her clients. Riveting personal stories with deep insights. Brave honesty. Thank you.
Is there air? you don't know!
5 out of 5 stars
It's like free councilling
Esther Perel is a brilliant therapist and extrodinary person. I'm amazed by her insight and how far she can help these clients in a one-off session. 10/10.
June Bug 2021
5 out of 5 stars
Incredibly informative therapy sessions
I feel like I’m getting free couples counseling!
Veeewoahh
5 out of 5 stars
Incredible Series
Such an amazing, insightful show. Esther is incredible, I just bought her books and look forward to learning even more from her. Please continue bringing us more episodes! Thank you Esther!
JoeBob the quiet one
5 out of 5 stars
Allows for introspection
There are some males that may say there is sexism in these podcasts. I would say, to the contrary, this is the most even handed view into a therapy session that I have heard. She does give emphasis/focus to those who have more of a difficulty recognizing their part in what has happened. The scary part of this series, is how much of each session reflects my own thoughts, feelings, experiences, even though I have been in a committed relationship for 17 years... with no physical infidelity or seemingly no mental infidelity.
GoGoActionKatie
5 out of 5 stars
My inspiration
Listening to your work is invigorating. Thank you!
nick is my nick name
1 out of 5 stars
Disappointing.
Was inspired by the first few episodes I heard but as I listened to more the hosts sexism became blaring. Every woman was somehow the victim and every man needed the work. I could scarcely find an episode where both genders of a opposite sex marriage walked away with things to work on. She cuts off the men constantly and insults them. It takes her insights and makes them fairly untrustworthy
26Ordibehesht
1 out of 5 stars
Horrible
Horrible therapy!
Nurse Rainbow Sparkles
5 out of 5 stars
Insight for all
Even though we’re not in the same exact situations, we can all learn so much from this dialogue and apply that insight to our own relationships, marriages, etc... Thank you, Esther, this is mental health and relationship wellness gold. Also, thank you to the anonymous couples who volunteered this, because we can all see some of these stories in our own upbringings, feelings/“truths” we’ve told ourselves, and communication styles. Just thank you!
1999 AIP
5 out of 5 stars
Really enjoyed this show hope more come soon
Happily married for 22 years but you never have it all figured out and the way she draws people out and get to the bottom is really refreshing and rewarding to listen to it. Also people’s relationships are really complicated and interesting!
tessac11
5 out of 5 stars
Esther is a amazing!
Have gotten some much needed insights into my own life and relationship listening to this podcast. Very thankful for Esther and the invaluable wisdom she has to share with people that need it more then they realize 💗
for the reward...
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing show - exactly what we need
I’ve been to therapy in the past but haven’t been able to go since the pandemic started. This podcast has allowed me to feel like I am getting that tool back in my wheelhouse for free! Every episode I see myself mirrored in her clients and love how she helps shift their (and my perspective).
CACRJ
5 out of 5 stars
Wonderful
Every episode you learn something new and it has made me to stop and think before my action. Ester please come back!!! You are wonderful.
Mikledjaz
5 out of 5 stars
So interesting
I am so intrigued by each and every episode. Even though I’m not dealing with most of situations personally I’m still able to take something helpful away from every episode.
daniiii721
5 out of 5 stars
Queen Esther 👑💖
I love love love Esther and this podcast. Thank you so much for all your wisdom. I learn something from every episode.
sarahfitzkreutz
5 out of 5 stars
LOVE
So calming to hear about other people’s problems ahahhh
Tufts student
5 out of 5 stars
What a gift
It’s so easy to feel alone in this life, especially when it comes to relationship conflicts. It’s such a gift to be able to realize how similar everyone’s struggles are, and how sometimes we have it really good compared to others and never realize. Esther is masterful and it’s really cool to hear her work. I get the same feeling listening to her as I do when seeing a professional athlete or maker do their thing.
MJ Mcd
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful
This podcast is so insightful and kind. I learn things every episode. Wish there were more episodes!!!
hdhdhxjwb
5 out of 5 stars
Where is she?
She’s the best.
WindSurfingGuy
5 out of 5 stars
Wow ... i am sad to have no episodes left
Listening to Ester was an insightful journey into human nature and even better into my own behavior and psyche. More fascinating than movies or tv series ... Ester is a genius and a guru
mdeb2001
5 out of 5 stars
Masterful
Ester is a master at what she does. such insight and skill when gelling people navigate relationships and why they behave the way they do. I’ve listened to and learned from every episode!
LauraGallupNY
5 out of 5 stars
A window into human emotions
Esther is a genius and a pleasure to listen to. Her insight is fascinating to learn from.
MidwestBeth
5 out of 5 stars
Authentic, Organic, What we all need, especially in our current climate
I do not write podcast reviews. Ever. Less it’s Rogan, lol. He deserves. Getting on with it... Let me preface this with this statement-This is probably the most organic podcast based in the realm of therapy I have heard to date. The format of raw, real sessions briefly broken up by Esther’s explanation and viewpoint as to how the session was going, and where she felt it needed to go is extraordinary, at times heartbreaking, and for those very things commendable. Keep up the great work, I cannot give this a high enough rating.
thomasadrian
5 out of 5 stars
Singular
Esther Perel’s podcast is so raw, intimate, and organically revealing to me. I take pleasure in how she listens to, reflects on, and works with her clients. She's incredibly perceptive and this podcast will give you something to relate to in your own relationships.
carla2692
5 out of 5 stars
come back! 😢
Esther is a QUEEN.
susglass
5 out of 5 stars
She gets to the heart of the matter
Love her insight and gentle way of helping people see what they don’t see.
been inspired girl
5 out of 5 stars
Great podcast everyone sure listen
I love the podcast, it’s my Monday afternoon go to. It’s my free therapy and the best one out there. I learn also can relate a lot, I’m sure every couple have their problems, I also have my as well for the pass 20 years, I learned how to talk to my husband much better, we are getting better with our relationship actually can enjoy each other, found our LOST LOVE! Thank you my teacher!
Andymb2
5 out of 5 stars
I’m a psychiatry resident
This podcast is very touching. I am a psychiatry resident, I hope to work in a community clinic and also part time private practice. This podcast inspires me to learn more about couples therapy so that I can practice as well.
Ronnie870528
5 out of 5 stars
Wowza
Love this podcast. As many others have said, I see myself in almost everyone and grow from Esther’s advice with every episode!
longapple03
5 out of 5 stars
Must listen!!
I relate and learn something about my self in each and every episode.
dchiapello
5 out of 5 stars
Incredibly helpful
Esther Perel has an uncanny gift. I began listening out of curiosity for “other people’s problems” and was surprised to find so much of specific, personal value to myself. So often I’d think that an episode wouldn’t have much relevance to me, only to find moments of deep significance. I think what comes through first of all is the mode of communication, based on full acceptance of what each person has to say. Her ability to bridge the gap between couples seems to stem from this, and her ability to see through the confusion of surface turbulence. Outstanding!
NewbieMeditatke
5 out of 5 stars
Heart Opening Podcast
Esthers amazing ability to allow people to blossom, to fully express their hearts needs is amazing. There are so many marginalized, brilliant voices and stories that are shared- it makes me feel seen and valued. Thank you Esther 💞💕
lauramorrigan
5 out of 5 stars
Very insightful, intelligent podcast
If only we all could have a wise woman like Esther Perel in our lives to guide, listen, and challenge us. This podcast is as close as most will get. I love you, Esther!
SaraOR7
5 out of 5 stars
Best psychotherapy podcast I’ve found!
I learn so much about relationships from this podcast! Esther is so kind, so intelligent and really knows how to help people build an understanding of who they are and how they operate in relationships. I love this podcast!
ABaisch
5 out of 5 stars
Great podcast!
Such a great podcast about life and relationships!
Trombone Paul
2 out of 5 stars
Podcast is great, advertising is not.
I really enjoy the content but all the advertisements and commercials are too much.
The1WGA
5 out of 5 stars
My ritual
This is probably my favorite podcast out there, along with 'Love letters' by the Boston globe. This podcast makes you vicariously live through other people's relationship dynamic, thereby learning so much during this process. It is both entertaining yet cathartic at the same time. I have increase my own awareness through this podcast, and has helped me both in all the relationships in my life. Esther's experience/research on this field truly shows and is a powerful host. I hope this podcast continues to be successful.
vdihle
5 out of 5 stars
Excellent
I really am captivated by this podcast. I love Esther’s finesse in communicating non judgmentally and with no nonsense. She is so skilled at graciously calling people out on their destructive thoughts and actions with sincere compassion. Her common sense approach to people is constructed around love, grace and compassion. I’m learning a lot because I can identify with some of the heartbreak I hear.
DubbMD
5 out of 5 stars
Great Podcast!!!
I LOVE listening in. Each episode seems to help me see things on myself! Esther is so great at making her clients reflect and be introspective! I would die for a therapist like her.
mcatgarrison
5 out of 5 stars
Not enough superlatives.
This podcast is incredible. It’s incredibly cathartic to listen to. Its *so* well done; so moving; so profound; so honest; so sensitive; its just flat out fascinating. Esther is a GIFT. (Not for nothing—should anyone think they’re crazy or broken or hopeless—this will give you hope. Everyone is dealing with something whether you see it from the outside or not.)
Just Tryna Review
5 out of 5 stars
What is “I” and what is “we”
Esther always has great advice and insight but this particular episode had me floored. The couple and their background were incredibly relatable and I felt myself getting DRAGGED (in a loving/useful way, of course) by her responses to them. Love this podcast!
Celeq
4 out of 5 stars
#7 He loves her..
These are incredibly difficult times, and this episode just warmed my heart as do you Dr. Perel. The kindness of each of you spilled out all over. Thank you. ❤️❤️❤️
Julia NY
5 out of 5 stars
I want to feel wanted
Great podcast. I feel for the couple, I feel for him the wife is so strong, he wants to be free, love you have to feel you can no force somebody to love you. Very sad for him.
TE Banfill
5 out of 5 stars
Brilliant and Stunningly Informative
Esther Perel is just brilliant! I have never enjoyed a Podcast more nor have I ever learned so much about myself by listening to her while she has these Therapy Sessions with her Clients! It amazes me how she is able to listen, figure out both sides of the clients issues and come to a conclusion on how to mend and resolve their issues if they are both willing to put in the effort and work. Esther Perel....Where have you been all my life? AND, thank you for sharing your sessions via your Podcasts. You are healing so many of us! God bless you always! ♥️🙏🏼
Itsmish
5 out of 5 stars
Genius insights
I have had the good fortune of meeting very talented therapists during my time pursuing a master’s degree in clinical psychology. I also have been in personal and couples therapy at different times over the course of my life. Even so, I have never heard anyone as absolutely gifted as Ms. Perel. Her questions and her observations are spot on. Her ability to listen and then help a couple understand the underlying issues is brilliant. She is direct and professional - but also brings humor and warmth to the sessions. There is never an episode where I don’t learn something. I also like how Ms. Perel, during post production, inserts some explanations of why she she asked someone something or makes an observation about herself and expresses how she might have said or done something differently. There are quite a few podcasts I like, but if I had to choose just one, this would be it. I’m not a fan of the saying “an a-ha moment,” but that is the only way I can describe how I feel at least a couple of times during one of the sessions. Brilliant!
Tislit1
5 out of 5 stars
Favorite Podcast Ever
I absolutely love this podcast. Esther’s therapeutic sessions are therapy for us all. I often find myself reflect on issues she brings up with her clients some of whom I can relate to. Esther may never know the extent of impact she has on her listeners. Her wisdom and deep understanding of human behavior have deeply impacted my life in a positive way and for that, I am forever grateful.
MindyFr
5 out of 5 stars
Poignant, insightful, even charming at times.
I am savoring each and everyone of the episodes I’ve listened to. Esther. brings a Brilliant perspective, and a deep level of honesty, insight and even self reflection. Somehow she is able to cut to the chase very quickly, Doesn’t hold back on her confrontive comments, but does it in a way that is thoughtful, Evocative and extremely helpful.
Nickey56
5 out of 5 stars
Married to a saint!!!
I need more!!! Can we have an update ??? He was even trying to be the “perfect” patient . I have been this woman and i used to think that i was such a bad person because i had a temper and my ex husband was sooo much better than me because he was quiet and withholding . Im so happy that i stop buying into that manipulation.
peanutnotforyou
5 out of 5 stars
5 stars!
Esther, you do a beautiful job putting the puzzle back together. I have a question. Would you ever do a where are they now update on any of the couples? (anonymous of course) Keep up the good work!
rmsDeb
5 out of 5 stars
Simple, Direct Language
I love Esther’s voice, and her ability to make complex situations simple; many “Aha!” moments. I wish there were more episodes!
Susie Snowflake16
5 out of 5 stars
Love Love Love
I first thought this was a strange concept for a podcast, but it’s so good. Esther does an amazing job and I’ve definitely learned a thing or two.
Brian60428
5 out of 5 stars
Great podcast
This is a great podcast if you want to learn how to converse with your significant other about problems and learn to see a situation from another point of view. It makes you realize that the way someone is acting is not a surface level emotion and that there is a lot more to us that drives our behavior
RoschM
5 out of 5 stars
Powerful messages. Great podcast
Every episode is so impactful and evokes reflection into my own relationship. I learnt about Esther Perel & this podcast from her interview on Red Talk Talk with Jada Pinkett Smith & I have listened to & enjoyed every episode of this podcast since.
katiereindeer
5 out of 5 stars
Eye-Opening Podcast
There has never been a book, podcast or movie so revolutionary. This podcast, through the conflicts of an anonymous couple, make you look at your own personal relationships in a different light. Esther’s insight and advice is clear and honest, which causes you as a listener to reflect on your own turmoil with a new perspective. I’ve understood so much of my behavior with relationships, romantic or otherwise, because of her. My only criticism— the episodes aren’t coming out as quickly as I would like!
sumokaboom
5 out of 5 stars
Doses of wisdom
Esther’s wisdom shines through in every episode. Thank you for modeling such strength, compassion, & ability to see through to truth. Humbling & inspiring all at once.
Lord Networthington
5 out of 5 stars
Newsflash
This woman is nothing short of a genius. The Chronic Philanderer episode just blew my mind!
Sage2.0
5 out of 5 stars
Esther is brilliant!
Listening into her therapy sessions is like going to therapy yourself - for free!
santaman333
5 out of 5 stars
Love
Absolutely love her. She is smart and insightful and nonjudgmental, and I learn so much every episode. Thanks Esther!
Adventurestartshere1
5 out of 5 stars
Every episode is relevant
Ester gets to the core of it every time
kate debit
4 out of 5 stars
Love it but skip 11
The best!!!! Episode 11 is tough to listen with the munching in the background, pls don't let them snack during your amazing sessions! Silly feedback I know ...
Katastrophe-CR
1 out of 5 stars
Great Podcast but a Pyramid Scheme ad?
As another therapist I genuinely enjoyed this podcast, but having an ad for beauty counter, an MLM pyramid scheme that specifically targets and takes advantage of individuals of immigrant backgrounds and lower socioeconomic status is vile. I'm out til that changes. Unconscionable.
Brenduhh254
5 out of 5 stars
Best Therapy Podcast
I wish i had discovered her early but omg she drops knowledge in ever episode . I hope to meet her one day.
debbiem123
5 out of 5 stars
Love this podcast!
Esther’s words are gold. Thank you for sharing your expertise so that so many people can benefit
Megan.0
5 out of 5 stars
Love and can’t wait for next episode
This podcast is as real as it gets when it comes to understanding real relationships and intimacy ... and the struggles therein. By far the best podcast. Checking daily for new episodes about life and love under lockdown !
123Samiam
5 out of 5 stars
I cannot stop listening!
I so enjoy hearing the struggles couples are dealing with and then how Estar homes in on the real issues. It’s like a beautiful dance. Thank you!
ADTrHeel
4 out of 5 stars
Not culturally sensitive
I’ve enjoyed listening to this podcast, and as a black female I was excited when I saw there would be a couple from Nigeria featured. As it turns out, it wasn’t a Nigerian couple but a (likely white) couple from Seattle who recently relocated to Nigeria. Ok fine. But then before the episode even started, the preview described Nigeria like a depraved nation with people not social distancing and maybe stealing their belongings. Couldn’t listen past that. Also there have been 1.5 million cases in the US so which country is safer?
Marie Zambo
5 out of 5 stars
Some darn good listening
So thankful to have found this podcast
Melimel787
5 out of 5 stars
Helpful
I am in a difficult stage in my life and listening to these sessions made me feel identified in so many ways! I have also identified I need to start going to therapy myself! The couple’s sessions are my favorite, this is the area where I am struggling the most right now...
Critime
5 out of 5 stars
This podcast is profound
If we could all hear through the noise like Estelle does, our relationships and our nation and our world would be a peaceful place. I absolutely love listening to her process what is going on in the conversation.
Lona718
5 out of 5 stars
Love her!
Love this podcast and Esther. This podcast will only strengthen relationships. I’m so grateful I found this podcast.
Tanya Twin Mom
5 out of 5 stars
Worship at Esther’s Alter!
This woman is my she-ro
the modern medusa
5 out of 5 stars
Mom, Moniques & Special Needs child with no Name
As a mother with two children, one of which is special needs, the other of which is not. Both boys, I was interested in that episode. I think the therapist did a good job, but a few things bothered me. Ok I understand why the child wasn’t named, I suppose. The focus is the “other” child. First thing that bothered me was the mother saying that she was told her child would never talk and should be institutionalized. I don’t believe that was ever told to her. It’s a developmental delay and it’s always we don’t know. We have to see how they develop. They would never make a statement of such finality. I find parents say that as a way to elevate their own selves. I defied the medical professionals. I never gave up. It irritates me, a lot. I have a nonverbal adult son. It just isn’t true, so I always feel disappointed when parents do that. Secondly the pronoun issue. That is a common problem with those who have Autistic Disorder aka as Classic Autism. I refrain from using pronouns at all, because my son doesn’t connect them with the person. Basically they don’t understand them. So if he says he or she? He does so without understanding why she (for 20+ years) was now a he? Or when is it she or when is it he. Of course he looks for a reaction. Because that is how he chooses the pronoun. He doesn’t choose one or the other because he sees you as one or the other. They are meaningless to him. So that expectation is also selfish.
Tachsiyo3
5 out of 5 stars
Awesome podcast!
This is a great podcast!
Caitwilliam
5 out of 5 stars
Omg this is the best podcast ever
ESTHER PEREL IS A GENIUS. Listening to her is a treasure.
Plentytime
5 out of 5 stars
Everything
This podcast is a life saver. I’ve read Ester’s books after hearing her here.
Valsalva Manuever
5 out of 5 stars
Astoundingly disarming
Everything you need to take a good look at yourself.
Sbramateurart
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing
Even those episodes where I think I could skip because the situation doesn't apply to me at all, I end up so glad I listened because in every episode there's been some unexpected aspect that 100% related to me and my marriage or other relationships. Love it.
Parisgirl111
5 out of 5 stars
So good!
Very relatable and helpful. Love the new quarantine content too!
Raayqf
5 out of 5 stars
Such an interesting podcast
Love this podcast. Thanks so much for making it!
Lov_adore
5 out of 5 stars
Je peux plus m’arrêter
The podcast was recommended, I started by listening to season one and could not stop. I felt a character in many of the couple sessions because It reminded me of my relationships. I did an exercise of writing down my break up pattern and I realized/recognized so much about myself. Merci Esther!
ashmo031391
5 out of 5 stars
Interesting and eye opening
Ester makes my soul so happy. I love her podcast and her speakings on YouTube. She’s got a great logical mindset that I think everyone should take a listen to. She’s amazing. I could go on for days about how much I love her. Just listen!!
Amatt10349
5 out of 5 stars
Observing others
The best podcast for learning more about yourself and how you interact with the world by means of observing the experience of others.
Val.S..
5 out of 5 stars
Healing and helpful
I absolutely love this podcast. I use a lot of the advice Esther Perel gives to her clients with my boyfriend. Learning to communicate and heal from my past. She is wonderful and truly helpful in everyday life, relationships. I’m so thankful to have found this podcast.
jameslittle1776
5 out of 5 stars
Such great insights!
I would love to hear check ins with some of her clients over time to see how they’re doing down the line.
Riobamban
5 out of 5 stars
Excellent
Esther is just fantastic. What a professional. Her insight and ability to cut directly to the subject at hand is pure magic. Listening to these episodes have helped me immensely, and helped me understand myself. She’s the best.
Matilde19
5 out of 5 stars
Love Esther!
I like listening to the stories and learn a lot from Esther’s insights. It helps me understand myself and give a new perspective into my relationships. I just wish she had more episodes.
Master22345_77ad
1 out of 5 stars
Low point on the stripper epi
While it would seem interesting, the show about the strippers, I found, was hard to get through because it was so dull. There was no insight, no clever understanding, just a story of how to women reconcile their life as strippers. Super boring.
healer annie
5 out of 5 stars
Enthralled
I’m so hooked on the amazing insights of Esther, I have researched dozens of her presentations!!!
Adrian Scott
5 out of 5 stars
!
I am continually astounded with how she is able to get so much done over a session. I have learned so much about my relationships and my relationship with myself. thank you for doing this work and making this podcast. *** one caveat is that I would love to hear more patients of color dealing with radicalized identities within romantic partnerships and family, talks of adoption, and talks with lgbt people ***
Rubix2020
5 out of 5 stars
Truly Genuine
Love Esther and her podcasts. It has helped me so much in my personal life as well as career. Not to mention how many of the stories shared are so relatable, motivating and moving.
jclarremore
5 out of 5 stars
Captivating
I do believe I’ll listen to anything this author/ therapist has to say. I resonate much of what she writes. What an absolute amazing therapist. A real star of her time. Brilliant.
Pod Lover91
5 out of 5 stars
Love it!
Helpful and entertaining. The people she talks to seem to have some pretty extreme situations, but in every conversation there are relatable relationship topics and patterns.
ajhstl
1 out of 5 stars
Misleading
This podcast is not lead by Esther Perel, it is lead by someone who is a “friend of”.
Robyn CM
5 out of 5 stars
Incredibly Intriguing, Insightful and Extraordinarily Helpful
This is by far the most explorative and intriguing podcast I listen to. It has helped me and my marriage exponentially. Even if you’re not looking for relationship advice, it is extraordinary to hear how Esther explains the humanity in all of us. I listen to most episodes more than once, often taking notes and typically share them with friends and family. Thank you for your hard work and generous gifts in helping others, EP!
Ard80
5 out of 5 stars
Great advice for mommies
I understand this therapist offers quite a bit of advice compared to a typical therapist who constantly follows up a client statement with more questions to the client to get them to explore their thoughts...but I love that this therapist gives practical advice. It’s super useful. Hope she continues to explore even more practical issues faced by moms.
CGWolf22
5 out of 5 stars
So many good insights
I love this podcast, so many good insights that can apply for any relationship. It has changed my perspective on many aspects of my marriage and my relationships with others
Dr.keiko
5 out of 5 stars
Raw authentic truth
I love this podcast, these conversations provide insight and depth into all relationships. As you listen, Esther facilitates deep truths and breakthroughs with her clients. This will widen your perspective and understanding for any type of relationship. Great podcast and amazing work!
cleoarbia
5 out of 5 stars
Inspiring
This podcast has provided me much insight into relationships of all kinds. It’s truly made me look at how interact with others and now I really want to go search for my own therapist. Thank you.
Carrie Shattuck
5 out of 5 stars
Heavy
What an articulate episode. Ended up in tears of joy for your father and uncle. Bless you for bringing them together
Blahhhblablaaaaa
5 out of 5 stars
SIMPLY THE BEST
THIS IS THE BEST PODCAST OUT THERE. I CHECK ANXIOUSLY FOR NEW EPISODES EVERY WEEK. I WISH YOU UPLOADED MORE!! IM HOOKED!!
Northern.Nelly
5 out of 5 stars
Love!
Love listening to your podcast! You have helped me more than you know. Anxiously waiting for new releases!
VerenaNYC
5 out of 5 stars
An invaluable podcast for therapist
This is a wonderful podcast for any couple’s therapist invested in life-long learning. Each session is a learning opportunity and each session brings to light how important it is for the therapist to be real and connected with the people in front of then.
Jus"1"
2 out of 5 stars
Season 3 is a repeat
I’ve heard these episodes before. It’s not new. Shame, because I love this podcast.
JamieNYC
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing!
Riveting and the smartest and most intuitive person I’ve ever heard!
Amm1114
5 out of 5 stars
Worthy of 10 stars!
You. Are. Amazing! I appreciate your work SO much! Listening to your podcasts is nearly a spiritual experience. You have an ability to unpack and reorganize some of life’s most challenging/painful issues and create a road map for hope and peace for all who listen. WHAT a superpower!!
Soroyal
5 out of 5 stars
Grateful
Each episode teaches me something new about myself and relationships. I love how real she is a therapist and gets to the root of the matter. The situation is never what it seems.
katiebm88
5 out of 5 stars
Like your very own therapy session
Somehow every session has something that applies to my life. It might even seem like the story is so far off my own at first. And yet, I’ll take something away with how I walk through my own life.
jmomza
5 out of 5 stars
Brilliant
Esther is incredible and you will learn so much from her insights.
Heyarnold8462
5 out of 5 stars
Somehow always applicable to my life
I find something or many somethings that are applicable to my life in each episode. I enjoy Esther’s insights and am always in awe with how she is able to detect and draw the underlying issue or unsaid thought.
a.brown1
5 out of 5 stars
Deeply Profound
I started listening to this podcast since it’s beginning and I have been strongly connected to it ever since. Esther Perel’s insights and knowledge have helped me understand my own inner world and has helped me understand my romantic relationships better. Thank you for helping me Esther. Please keep this podcast going.
fhydbdhhdhhfhdhshss
5 out of 5 stars
Who We Are at Our Deepest Selves
Esther Perel may be the smartest person alive, or at least the most perceptive. With her mellifluous voice, she analyzes and reveals the human psyche in its myriad complexities, and does so in accessible, intriguing ways, with both kindness and directness. Wonderful podcast!
adruey xu
5 out of 5 stars
Captivating
Fly on the wall insight into relationships and the therapy process........Excellent
WenonaB
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing
No matter the episode, this podcast is applicable to my own life and those around me every single time. Dr. Perel is fantastic- wow! Thank you!
您跑着去
5 out of 5 stars
Someone I look up to
Every episode of this serie has been inspiring and amazing. I hope to become someone like Esther in the future, because I very much share the value that the quality of our intimate relationships is indeed a significant part of the quality of our life. Highly recommend!
KanPodFan
5 out of 5 stars
How does she always get to crux of the matter?
Revealing conversations about couples and messy lives.
Marilyn Monopoly
5 out of 5 stars
Why is she so good?
I learn so much from listening to Esther. She is a masterful practitioner and I often wonder how she got so good. Who did she learn from? Clearly she has some innate gifts. On another note - the new podcast about work - meh. Didn’t love the first episode with two rich white dudes.
EMMc49
5 out of 5 stars
Where shall we begin
I have been waiting for this season forever. Keep them coming. I personally am not in a relationship but this thoughtful series helps me in other areas of my life.
carmen2u
5 out of 5 stars
Entrancing and Enlightening
Ester Perel allows listeners to eavesdrop on intense and riveting psychotherapy sessions, punctuated with epiphanies and insights about human relationships. This podcast should become mandatory listening for all graduate psychology students. This has become my favorite podcast, bar none.
Clyecats
5 out of 5 stars
Brilliant
Esther Perel is brilliant and inspiring. I am in awe of her insight on every episode. Love!!!
Laaaaaaaaaaaaammmmmmmmmmr
4 out of 5 stars
Self-reflection
This podcast has helped me self-reflect on my own issues. The insight I have gained here has been a series of mini-ahas! Thank you, Esther!
Melartemis
5 out of 5 stars
A beautiful thing.
Esther is some kind of human whisperer - like her own kind of Rain Man. I am crushed out on her brain, humanity and insight. I feel as though she holds a crystal to the light and makes sure we see every facet. It is a beautiful, beautiful thing.
silkysusan
5 out of 5 stars
Obsessed
As a family therapist-in-training, Esther Perel serves, for me, as the gold standard for observing technique. Brilliant stuff.
Princesscupcake15
5 out of 5 stars
Esther Perel
Simply gifted at listening for what is not said.
Railer08
5 out of 5 stars
Relationship genius
Esther compassionately offers the words people cannot say.
bent but never broken
5 out of 5 stars
Needing a place of resonance, learning and solace
Dr. Esther Perel is honestly brilliant in every sense of the word. She is studied, skilled, deeply empathetic, self reflective, flexible, honest, humorous, full of life and altogether effective. This is coming from a person from a person with a clinical background, who normally judges and dismisses quality of work in this realm. I have felt more safe, hopeful and understood in just listening to her (after a devastating separation from my husband) than I could ever have hoped for. I now listen every day. As I take to the pavement to take care of myself physically, I tune in to my newest episodes to take care of my heart and psyche. My goodness do I want to work with her and my husband!!! A must if you have had had/want a serious, whole, lasting, loving, forgiving, mutually fulfilling and sustainable relationship. I’m forever grateful even if my marriage ends. Listen! Love and gratitude to Dr. Perel. Thank you for being on this most difficult journey with me from afar.
Aperez1984
5 out of 5 stars
Yes! This Podcast is that GOOD
If you are married, in a relationship, or plan to be in a relationship then listen in on these couples and learn from them. It’s incredible to hear the pain & struggle of these couples. This Podcast has taught me to better communicate in my relationship, during our couples counseling sessions, and become a happier and better lover. PLEASE SHARE THIS PODCAST with friends and family. It’s So GOOD!
Javabean1
5 out of 5 stars
On target
As a fellow therapist looking to specialize with primarily couples and relational therapy this podcast is invaluable and Esther is an absolute gem, she is right on the money with the couples in these sessions!
avidpod
5 out of 5 stars
I listen to learn about me!
I listen to learn about myself, my life, and my relationship. There are many situations, and within them, so am I.
Erwin1007
5 out of 5 stars
Can’t get enough
Love this show. Esther’s analysis never fails to bring new insight
28Kris91
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing!
Wow. Wow. Wow. This podcast is magnificent. Not only do u get the chance to hear the couples’ issues & find a relating point for yourself, but you also hear Esther bring each person to a point of realization. She is so caring and compassionate to each person. I could listen to this podcast all day!
kindigo11
5 out of 5 stars
👍
Finally another season! I’ve been checking every week!
kazstaxx
5 out of 5 stars
Unprecedented
This is a phenomenal podcast. I have never heard therapy so “real” even my own sessions. This has helped me immensely.
Allisonw11111
5 out of 5 stars
Thank you!!!
This podcast is my favorite. I have been waiting months for and months for season three. Thank you for your brilliance!!!
KDimSum
5 out of 5 stars
So happy we’re back for Season 3!
I love this podcast! Listened to Esther for the first time as a guest on Armchair Expert and migrated over here - this podcast has fast become one of my favorites. Her compassion and perspective has been incredibly helpful in shaping how I regard my own relationships, with partners, family, friends. Looking forward to S3!
allisonpingel
5 out of 5 stars
SEASON 3
PLEASE TELL ME IT IS HERE THIS IS CHEAPER THAN THERAPY
Sashajayemm
5 out of 5 stars
Next season
Hello. I see a lot of comments for the next season. I found a new episode that was shared last Thursday on Spotify. Check it out there!
Mc_train
5 out of 5 stars
Beautiful and wise
I can't recommemd this podcast enough! It's fascinating to hear how other couples struggle in such real ways. Esther is a genius at helping and offering pushes in the right direction. I cry, I laugh, and I learn so much about relationships and the struggles of being human - all wrapped in Esther's well-earned wisdom and humor.
jjkristiness
5 out of 5 stars
Wow. Wow. WOW.
MORE PLEASE. This is exactly what I’ve been searching for! This woman is so intelligent and insightful. Even if you can’t relate to the specific issue/topic of the therapy session, there is still so much to be gained just from listening. She has an incredible ability to see past the surface and bring forward the underlying issues in a language that is so clear and accessible. You’ll find yourself remembering her commentary and being more mindful of your own words, your own perceptions and your own actions.
J53960
5 out of 5 stars
Wonderful wonderful wonderful!
I am a therapist myself, just starting out in private practice and WOW this podcast really helps you to understand the essence of couples therapy and the sexual aspect to it. Thank you Esther, you are an Oracle to this field! Love from Florida.
inlovefromday1
5 out of 5 stars
Omg!
I need the 3rd season! Love this!
beabeabeatrix
5 out of 5 stars
Love it
WHERES THE NEW SEASON??
CDroni
5 out of 5 stars
Waiting for more
I listened to every episode and am waiting for more! It says season 3 released Spring 2019 and its now fall, any updates?
MrsLuli
5 out of 5 stars
Eye Opening
Estaire is so compassionate and insightful: I’m learning so much from her through these brave couples’ experiences.
Editflix1234567890
5 out of 5 stars
Where Should We Begin
Definitely life altering! I am dying for more episodes. I feel like listening makes me a better person and a better partner.
lkszip
5 out of 5 stars
Season 3
Is on Audible, as a book (?)....... Where Are We Now? The Arc of Love”
uuitness
5 out of 5 stars
Just wow
This is life altering.
patypowpow
5 out of 5 stars
Huge fan from the very beginning.
I’ve been waiting for season 3 for a long long time. I see people saying it’s on audible but I only see seasons 1 and 2 on there as well. Can someone please give us an update on the status of season 3?
cfdilley
5 out of 5 stars
Invaluable
Incredible series but WHERE IS SEASON 3???
Adolined
5 out of 5 stars
Transcendent
Also- I feel like people need to know... season 3 is on audible podcasts. And it’s great.
Yellowweeks
5 out of 5 stars
Love this podcast!
Been waiting for season 3 for an eternity!! Please release it!
okokclau
5 out of 5 stars
Yes season 3!
It’s been a while when will season 3 stop 🤣😭
katsch33
5 out of 5 stars
Come on!
Please drop Season 3!
#whereisseasom3?
5 out of 5 stars
WHERE IS SEASON 3!?!?
Where?
el roseo
5 out of 5 stars
Truly a gem
Where’s season three!!!!! Such a gem of tender human emotion/connection/tragedy. Really adore Miss Perel and love this fly on the wall view of her graceful, tender support of struggling love.
11nettie
5 out of 5 stars
Great stuff!
I love this podcast! About to go sign up for Audible though so I can listen to season 3 since it seems it might not be released here 😐
patty nash dj
5 out of 5 stars
pure hermeneutic joy
esther perel is so incredibly smart, and this podcast is a joy to listen to. WHERE IS SEASON 3?!
Mirvol
5 out of 5 stars
Insightfully wonderful
I came across this podcast by chance and it turned out to be exceptional. To say that I learned a lot would be nothing more than statement of fact. The experience I had, while listening, was insightful, emotional, and everything in between. I can’t wait for more episodes.
BethanyJoy22
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful
I learn so much about myself by listening to these sessions and am growing my empathy towards others. What a unique experience to get to be a “fly on the wall” in a very good counseling session.
Hooch1029
5 out of 5 stars
Learning
After listening to a handful of episodes I feel like Esther and her patients are my friends, I’m learning much about my self and my relationships
az_k
5 out of 5 stars
I am a fan.
Esther Perel is brilliant, the podcast is so insightful ! What a way of exploring the complexity of relationships. I love listening to the questions Esther asks, to dig deeper and to understand the issues between couples. So much wisdom. I cannot wait for season 3.
Jinjin0909
5 out of 5 stars
A+++++
AMAZING! As a podcast, it is very entertaining and interesting. It made me tear up so many times. I can relate to some issues and now can understand certain emotions that hits me time to time. It gives youa very fresh perpective of human psychology (Not that I know anything, I'm no specialist!) I cannot wait for season 3 it's all I've been waiting for. I love Esther!!! She is just THE BEST!!
lysslub
5 out of 5 stars
Spring 2019
I love this podcast! It’s such a great learning tool to reflect upon yourself but also others and how they may feel!!! Please, when is it coming back?? Also how come no one is responding to all these great reviews that you are getting? I did email and asked about season 3 and they said it was on audible, but it’s not named the same and feels more like a book than a podcast!!! Can you please make SEASON 4 😍😍
Ta Le Ha
5 out of 5 stars
Season 3
I absolutely love this podcast! You’re absolutely an amazing speaker, therapist and human being! I’m very excited for Season 3 to become available. The show notes said it would be available in the Spring, it is now mid Summer and I was wondering if you could post when it will be starting? I check frequently and I am very much looking forward to new episodes!
Enlighten 07
4 out of 5 stars
Nourishment for your relationship soul...
I’m not even in a relationship and I thoroughly enjoy listening to Esther. First heard of her on a Dax Podcast. She brings such a deep understanding of issues within relationships and sets the bar for what a therapist should be able to accomplish. While she is having a session, she will break several times and address the podcast audience with things like, “here is what I heard”, “this is what I am thinking”, “I am going to try this”. This provides the listener with a better understanding of the session. There are too many things I love about this podcast to describe in one review. Needless to say, listening to Esther Perel will be a requirement for my next partner. lol...
Friskyladyblue
5 out of 5 stars
Season 3 is on Audible
Like so many other people that have written reviews, I too have been waiting for Season 3. I just did a search for it and it seems to only be available on Audible. I have never used that before, but it seems like you need to pay to use it, which is disappointing. Luckily, I believe there is a free trial. There’s no way I can not listen to Season 3! Esther is so wonderful and knowledgeable in how to help the featured couples.
mkemle
5 out of 5 stars
Desperately waiting
I don’t know what it says about me and my wellness but I’m desperate for a 3rd season. It has made me a better sister, wife, daughter, and mother to listen and think through these sessions. Thank you and spring is already passed!
Costeapriscilla
5 out of 5 stars
Love love love this podcast
What a great podcast!!! This helps me so much in my own everyday life. Waiting on season3
Megaudc
5 out of 5 stars
Where is Season 3?
I love this show and need new episodes!
lisnicmul
5 out of 5 stars
Waiting....
Where is Season 3?
Daesdemona
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful
This podcast shares a lot of insights about the struggles of marriage. It makes me reflect about my own marriage and experiences.
TBW68
5 out of 5 stars
Season 3
This is a great podcast. What happened to Season 3 that was supposed to be available Spring 2019?
ErinArt
5 out of 5 stars
Well worth the purchase
Been a listener of "Where Should We Begin?" from the beginning and so purchasing Season 3 from Audible was a no brainer. There were 6 couples, all with a different story. Some issues were very relatable and I found that you can actually learn a lot from these. A minor downside (which Esther is aware of), this is not recorded in a sound booth so there are times when the New York construction noise overpowers the conversation (distracts it).
Meg Gab.
5 out of 5 stars
Human Dynamics
As someone enthralled with human relationships and just being human, this is the most intriguing podcast. It has made me a better partner as well.
mathheath
5 out of 5 stars
When can we expect season 3???
Where is season 3?! We’re waiting!!!
Cherie Ann Chan
5 out of 5 stars
Thank you
Thank you for your perspective and truth. I learn something from every episode and have gained a new lens of which to reflect on not only my marriage but other relationships and my relationship with myself.
nemuzikali
5 out of 5 stars
When is it coming?
Waiting😒
cat_row
5 out of 5 stars
Heard her on another podcast. Fell in love.
BIG love to EP! She’s a fantastic source for really great info, self reflection, and a good laugh, too. She’s forthright, compassionate, and intelligent. I love this podcast. I love EP. I love learning through this platform.
Youmie F.
5 out of 5 stars
Such a powerful podcast! There is no one like Esther!
This podcast is extremely powerful. Esther’s ability to be sensitive to her guests make you root for them. She is able to help people truly think differently. She is walking in her purpose fully. She is changing lives and she is doing it just by asking the questions. Now when is season 3 coming???
enviousxbeauty
5 out of 5 stars
Wise Words
This is the very first podcast I have ever really got into listening to. While the stories and sessions are not extremely riveting or exciting they are real and down to earth. Esther is very insightful on advising the steps couples should be taking to communicate. I encourage every couple to listen along. A lot of the advice shared pertains to so many different aspects in a relationship.
3WylieGirlz
5 out of 5 stars
Season 3
Where is it?!
khess86
5 out of 5 stars
Love the show! I want an update show!!
I learn something every episode. That you Esther for your wise perspective.
Amy JOJO
3 out of 5 stars
Deep Listen but Consistency?
Love these episodes and always looking forward to more. But spring is over, where are the new episodes?
CiCi-bklyn
5 out of 5 stars
Waiting for Season 3
Yes, I’m curious about when Season 3 will start. Does anyone know?
Positivity78
5 out of 5 stars
I learn something from every episode
I like listening because it is nice to know that I am not the only one who doesn’t have it all together. I like how she always comes from a place of love and infuses it into every session. I also like how she helps the patients to understand that she is there to help and not fix anyone.
SweetestYears
5 out of 5 stars
Can’t wait for more
When is season 3 out? It’s summer...so just curious 🤷🏻♀️📚🤘🏻
Mii moo
5 out of 5 stars
Phenomenal
I absolutely love this podcast! I can’t wait for season 3!
eebz420
5 out of 5 stars
One of my favorite podcasts
Esther Perel is amazing! What I love is that I can sometimes apply her advice in these relationships to my work and daily life—it’s not just relevant for romantic relationships.
SwissAF1
5 out of 5 stars
Wondering?
Curious when the new season is coming out. Two weeks left of spring. Just saying.
Momma Matthews
5 out of 5 stars
Wonderful!
Great advice. Where is season 3??
Arrlex
5 out of 5 stars
Season three ?
I love this but where’s season 3 😃educational 👌
spiritusbastard
5 out of 5 stars
Updates?? :(
Love this podcast. That being said, it is June now, which is Summer 2019 in my book. Where my new season at? 😩
MollyVla
5 out of 5 stars
Fascinating!
This podcast is so fascinating. Hearing couples confront all kinds of issues is so helpful, as are the asides and insights from EP.
1clea
5 out of 5 stars
Love, wish there was more content!
I love these episodes!! This podcast gives you different perspectives on different relationships. Helps you to understand communication and other people’s realities. It’s very educational. Now I’m just waiting for springs content to come out!! :)
Dimplez707
5 out of 5 stars
Mind blown!
I also stubbled across this podcast thru Dax Shepherds podcast and was mind blown! She hit on a lot of things that fit into my life right now.. as if she was answering to my prayers for answers. She helped me see a different perspective on things. She made so much sense and gave me hope. I’ve been binge listening to all her episodes and look forward to her 3rd season. She’s amazing! She’s like a “Relationship Whisperer”!
ShadyLady1989
5 out of 5 stars
Listen to every episode. You'll be glad you did.
Came to this podcast because of Ester's appearance on Armchair Expert. Ester is an incredible human being with deep insight into what makes people tick. I'm not even in a relationship, but I get so much out of this podcast. Often feel like Ester's talking to me when I know for certain she's not, but she's just that good at understanding people. Absolutely worth listening to every episode.
JillT1214
5 out of 5 stars
Love!
I’m not even part of a couple but I find every episode so enlightening and thought provoking. Can’t wait for season 3
Kristen36
5 out of 5 stars
Wow!
I just binged both seasons and I absolutely cannot wait for Season 3! Esther you are amazing!!
Zack Betz
5 out of 5 stars
Fantastic
I'm only halfway through season 1 and I can say this podcast is now my favorite (and I listen to a lot of podcasts). The conversations are so intimate that sometimes I feel I shouldn't be listening. So I am very grateful to Mrs Perel and team for letting us see "behind the curtain". Mrs Perel beautifully walks that line where she hears her guests, yet knows just the right thing to say to tip the scales in favor of their flourishing. When she plays with them, and they play back, it really is fun.
Mia223
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing!
I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist and I absolutely love this podcast, it’s amazing to hear someone work with couples so gracefully. She’s great! I love the sense of humor she uses and focusing on cultural differences. I love how she can also say “what I should have said was...”. Loving it. Thank you!!!
Lcdscreen
5 out of 5 stars
Honestly
Changed my life
KLYNBUFF
5 out of 5 stars
LOVE
I love this intimate peek into relationships and how she pulls back to tell you what the people are really saying. It’s so interesting to hear how complex we truly are! It’s also crazy to think how ill-equipped we are for understanding each other. I literally check everyday to see if Season 3 has been released!
littlepalmtree
5 out of 5 stars
Raw & heartfelt
Esther is amazing! Listening to this audible makes me feel like I, too, am getting a therapy session. I love that I can always take something from each episode because Esther is so versatile. I’m looking forward to season 3!
Nina Saphina
5 out of 5 stars
Great
Sometimes I think the participants are being “led” to a conclusion they don’t necessarily buy into 100%, but overall, for those of us interested in the human condition and how people cope, these episodes have been great listening! I have picked up some tidbits that I am reminded of in certain situations. Like, in regard to the saying that time heals all wounds, there was the observation, “There’s nothing magical about time. It’s what happens during that time that’s important.” I keep checking back for more episodes, I hope there’s more to come! Season 3 is here, yay!
Megametc
5 out of 5 stars
Esther is the Best
Love, love & love!!!! Esther is amazing, I could listen to her all day. She is very intelligent in her field, she has a great way of framing things, to a relatable level. She has an amazing voice! My only complaint is I need way more episodes.
BURGERS4EVA
5 out of 5 stars
Thank you Esther!
Cannot wait for the next season, such amazing view points
sisterhood friends
5 out of 5 stars
Love love love love
This podcast has taught me so much more about myself in relationships and has really helped me pin point where improvement is needed within myself. Each episode leaves me mind blown, humbled, and inspired to go back to my relationship several steps smarter and more empathetic. I cannot wait for season 3 and I’m so thankful I stumbled across Esther through her genius TED Talk which lead me to here! ❤️🙏🏼
Aksaffer
5 out of 5 stars
Can’t wait for season 3!
Have been listening and reading everything I can find by Esther! Can’t wait for season 3!
desert hybrid
5 out of 5 stars
Please make the episodes longer
The themes are universal and listening to the calm, compassionate and animated way in which Esther Perel decodes the problems in each session to identify the real issues is compelling. The editing from the three hour session to the 30 mins episode is done well but often I would like to understand the process and wish the episode was at last an hour long. Thank you for creating this series. It is a real gift.
Stargaze Flowers
5 out of 5 stars
MORE PLEASE
I love this! Just found out that she has a podcast. Please MORE! I love the rawness and how to just hear other humans speak about ways they’re trying to figure things out with Esther. I am in need of help and hearing all of this. Thank you!
jessie6938
5 out of 5 stars
Beautiful
I love the authentic talk and non judgment. Relationships are not always easy.
Ellerpea
5 out of 5 stars
YES!
I enjoyed this sooo much. I hope it encourages more people to seek therapy because of the benefits seen here. Esther is great at challenging the faulty beliefs of some people and helping them see beyond their own viewpoint.
Estudiante11
5 out of 5 stars
One of my all-time favorites
This is a go-to when I’m going on a long trip. Such honest, wonderful (although often heartbreaking) content that makes you re-examine your own relationships. I only wish there were more frequent episodes!
ZigzagPath
5 out of 5 stars
❤️
Can’t wait to season 3.
Ahdawnis
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing! - UPDATE
SOOOOOO glad to see this podcast making a return! I can’t wait for the Spring :-)
FreshHopCinema
5 out of 5 stars
The scope of this thing…
God this podcast is just fantastic. Esther Perel is brilliant. I finally got around to ordering “Mating in Captivity“ (her book) and I can’t wait for it to arrive this week!
Madromance
5 out of 5 stars
Perspective
This podcast gives an insane amount of perspective to those who listen. There is so much to learn from each episode and Esther’s thoughts from when she re-listens are some of the best pieces. A truly vulnerable look into people’s lives that may be struggling with some of the same things you are. Besides, Esther’s accent is so enjoyable and there’s always something to learn from her!
Polly, Paint & Pencil Studio
5 out of 5 stars
Went home, bought all of her books.
Not everyone can communicate their feelings, even fewer of us take time to understand their meaning, where they come from, what parts of our pasts have contributed to how we react, understand, interpret. This series was incredibly insightful, human, normalizing— I could go on, forever, with praise. I couldn’t stop listening, then had to listen again once I took the time to absorb them. I did purchase all of Perel’s books. They’re great, but hearing her in her sessions with real people in the live was far more intriguing. I’m totally hooked. Esther Perel x Audible HAS to make more...
CerGRRR
5 out of 5 stars
If you are in therapy this is a must...
This is a wonderful show and I'm so grateful to have found it. It's like being a fly on the wall at someone else's therapy session. You get more therapeutic exposure and can gain a greater sense of insight and more importantly empathy. I told my therapist- it's like additional homework between sessions. Thank you so much for this podcast ❤️.
Iridaa
5 out of 5 stars
So good
Hurry up and do more please.
thervey3
5 out of 5 stars
Love THIS
This podcast is a glimpse into couples’ lives and how they got where they are today. It is personal and intimate. The episodes usually don’t cover anything sexual or erotic but rather are focused on the individuals that make up these couples. Esther has a gift of perception and is able to balance sensitivity while succinctly articulating feedback. She is truly amazing - I want to be just like her when I grow up!!
Heezywifey
5 out of 5 stars
Must listen if you’re human
Simply amazing concept and session! Love the advice as well.
Bradley'sMommy07
5 out of 5 stars
Love it
I love this podcast, and I love her advice and counseling technique
The mountain valley
5 out of 5 stars
The best !!! Excited for more , is April 27th the last of this season 2?
Love Esther, she covers everything clearly understood thank you When is the new season I can’t seem to find anything I’m all caught up on season two
Rbruno1234
5 out of 5 stars
Love them all!
I hope there will be more seasons! I loved every episode. Many of the things I could apply to my own life and marriage.
Stitch1043
5 out of 5 stars
Please
Please please come back I miss you on iTunes
Souljoi
5 out of 5 stars
Fantastic
Outstanding service. I love it and want more.
KateC214
5 out of 5 stars
Incredibly Interesting
There are nuggets of gold in every session. This podcast emphasizes healthy communication in relationships but has also helped with understanding and communicating with a number of different types of people in every day life. Can’t. Stop. Listening.
KelliMTennant
5 out of 5 stars
the best.
What I would give to have Esther Perel work with me. I am so grateful for this show and her books. She has opened up my eyes and made me see relationships and communication in a whole new way.
LawyerMcD
5 out of 5 stars
Therapy works if you work it
I tell everyone about this podcast. It’s makes you think about your relationships to other people and to yourself without ever being a self help vibe. Her ability to say the perfect word to describe a feeling leaves me in awe every time.
heloisa28
5 out of 5 stars
So insightful!
Esther Perel is absolutely amazing at getting couples to really talk to each other. I learn something about myself in every episode.
scorpio2186
5 out of 5 stars
Miss the show
This is a great podcast! Can’t wait for more episodes.
CheleMV
5 out of 5 stars
Enlightened
I dare to say I’ve learned just as much, if not more about myself, my ex-partner and the relationship we had together than I did in all my years of therapy. This podcast gives me hope for suffering relationships. Don’t give up until you’ve listened! And, read her books, Mating in Captivity and State of Affairs. Dr. Perel is a genius!
andrushkho
5 out of 5 stars
If only you could find therapists like her more commonly in the US!
She’s fantastic!!
Trishy10-4
5 out of 5 stars
Life altering
We can learn from others' mistakes and welcome a new day for our relationship. Listen as Perel peels back layers of anger, fear, shame and hopelessness to reveal the fascinating humans we really are...or can be, with an open mind. I recognized my behavior patterns and emotional pitfalls in several episodes. We are more similar than we think. I urge you to listen with an open heart and I'm confident you'll find wisdom and answers as I did.
Acham678
5 out of 5 stars
An excellent use of time for all of us
These episodes are SO good. Even if the problems aren’t in your own life, there are small things that you can glean and apply to your own relationships. I’ve recommended it to all my friends and family, some single, some with partners. Esther has a wonderful ability to build rapport, see through what someone is saying, and bring much needed insight into the situation. She also readily admits when she does something wrong, which gains trust and shows such a respect for the people she’s working with. I hope there’s more to come. Thank you for letting us eavesdrop for the sake of our health and relationships.
katieoreagan
5 out of 5 stars
Great listen
Love this podcast! Hopefully it keeps going.
LindseyRegi
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful and Transformative
Cannot recommend Ester strongly enough. I’ve learned so much about myself, negative habits, coping skills, insights into my relationships, etc.
olhica 🦄
5 out of 5 stars
You have a chance
you have a chance to solve your problems, to understand your marriage, just try to listen and meditate. It’s like therapy for me. Thanks! ❤️
nicollekate
5 out of 5 stars
Love ever word
Love every word. Esther’s brilliance around human behavior, her timing, and how she bottom-lines it for her clients is impeccable. I’m hooked and have learned so much.
Frisch_flies
1 out of 5 stars
Wow. Episode 1. Internalized Misogyny.
Ugh. Can’t listen to anything past this.
hhhbjnjn
5 out of 5 stars
Come back!
Would love to listen to new episodes!
Synesthë
5 out of 5 stars
EXCELLENT!
I LOVE this podcast - by far one of my favorites of all time. I hope they create more episodes!! Ester has such a fantastic and unique point of view, and really gives wonderful, empathetic, realistic advice. I think we all need some of her words of wisdom!
Jennmbell
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful and Fascinating
Brutally honest and insightful. I’m drawn in and mesmerized during each episode. Only wish the episodes came more frequently! Can’t wait for the next season.
The best diva 32
5 out of 5 stars
Must subscribe!!!!!!!
I am a podcast lover, I usually try different podcast to see what spark my interest. Since I discovered this podcast, I cannot get enough. Thank you Esther and every person who find the courage to share their issues with the world. This podcast is very insightful and inspirational.
DebraMN
5 out of 5 stars
Fly on the wall
It’s fascinating and riveting to be a fly on the wall of these therapy sessions and get a glimpse into the private lives of others. I could listen to a thousand episodes of this podcast and never get bored.
Starfish8D
5 out of 5 stars
Incredible
Esther is a genius!
Pic user 2584
5 out of 5 stars
An honest look into relationships
I love to listen to this show while working around the house are driving around town. The conversations that couples are able to have during these in-depth interviews are open and honest and hard and raw. I love when Ester calls someone out, and then encourages and help them dig deeper for the truth.
Blueshorts801
5 out of 5 stars
Feel Good and Feel Deep
I really enjoy this show. Being a fly on the wall in these counseling sessions is amazing! I feel like I am learning so many things about relationships, myself, and the other people in my relationships. I think listening to this podcast has made me a more receptive, and hopefully better, person.
Bittycarden
5 out of 5 stars
LOOOOVE
I love this podcast and Esther it’s one of my favorites thank you!
Steve8990
5 out of 5 stars
Amazingly honest
This series is outstanding and I am deeply appreciative of the couples willing to discuss their issues. She is masterful at bringing out points of discussion and facilitating each person and at the same time she calls out bad behavior. This is a great podcast.
Carolyn Fink
5 out of 5 stars
Love this pod!
Great concept, fascinating to listen to and can help you get a little marriage and relationship advice for free if you listen closely! Great pod!
Deminapepper
5 out of 5 stars
Learning experience
It is easy to trust one's own analysis. It is much more difficult to listen. I have learned so much about my relationships and myself from listening to this podcast. I have learned how to be a better listener. I am deeply grateful for this experience.
mindfulconsumer
5 out of 5 stars
Very Helpful
I've listened to season 1 and 2, and I'm looking forward to the next one. I recommend it to everyone. I've learned so much about romantic and family relationships from Esther. She's incredible.
kareykareylou
5 out of 5 stars
I am so grateful for this podcast
I was introduced to this podcast an excerpt was featured on This American Life. Listening to this podcast has rescued my relationship. I lacked the ability to communicate my needs and that led to serious frustration and a breakup. I now have the language to communicate through it and the perspective to know where I have been neglectful of him. This podcast excites me. It really has changed my life. I am so grateful because I have the love of my life back! I’m definitely going to buy Esther’s books.
Podcast Lover 22
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful, unexpected, captivating
I devoured every one of these episodes. Ester has a way of unpacking people’s issues to reveal the REAL dynamics and motivations that underlie their behavior. She adds a level of depth and respect to her clients experiences that could easily be dismissed with pop-psychology. You never end up where you expect to. This lady knows her stuff!
ShammiKG
1 out of 5 stars
Episode 1
He’s the one who cheated and she’s the one who ended up apologizing. Esther did a wrong thing there.
Olovelyday
5 out of 5 stars
LOVE!!!!!!!
She is amazing at what she does! Love this show! I hope she never stops.
TishInTx
5 out of 5 stars
Looking for more
I love this podcast...waiting for more episodes.
Delectiomnibus
5 out of 5 stars
Invaluable
With psychiatry being so stigmatized in our culture this show brings people into the room and helps to humanize the practice. You get to walk with people through the challenges of poor and uninformed perspectives, assumptive thoughts, implied communications, and childhood trauma. Esther does a brilliant job of unweaving where destructive thoughts and actions stem from to help not only the people on the podcasts but also those listening along who may have thought or done the same things. I can’t think of anything better to help people grow personally than to hear these types of challenges and problems be addressed in a coherent manner with a professional explaining along the process. It’s worth the listen and the self reflection, a truly powerful podcast. I don’t think there were many episodes that didn’t bring me to tears. I hope this podcast continues as long as possible.
HookedAJ
5 out of 5 stars
Raw and Talented
My wife and I discovered Esther through her amazing Ted Talks. Her first book “Mating in Captivity” transformed our relationship and the way we were able to talk about intimacy. We love stepping inside these sessions and have learned something from each one. Esther’s talent as a therapist is undeniable. We find her absolutely brilliant and appreciate that she and these couples have allowed us to learn through them.
Chrisi2304
5 out of 5 stars
So amazing how much I could take out for myself!!!
I love it and can't wait for more episodes!!!
LauraFP.
5 out of 5 stars
Grueling but great
WOW. Listening to these sessions with couples that have gone to Esther Perel is eye-opening in many, many ways. It is rather difficult for me to listen to becasue I have felt many of the things that the patients discuss. Some of those things were painful. To listen to the things Esther says to them is absolutely amazing and I have learned a lot.
@redhead
5 out of 5 stars
So so good!
I have followed Esther since 2013 and have loved her approach and insights via her books and public speaking engagements. This podcast takes it to a whole new level.. I pull gems of wisdom and life lessons from every episode! I feel greater empathy and understanding of my own behaviors as well as a different perspective on others. Bravo Audible.. thank you for bringing this fantastic individual into my weekly commute!
Salvia&MarleAreWithHer
5 out of 5 stars
Love this podcast
This podcast has helped me so much as a therapist AND as a partner
SF discount lover
5 out of 5 stars
Just what I needed. So therapeutic!
Listening to this show is putting me in the right frame of mind to be a better listener in my relationship. Thank you! Thank you Esther and to all the couples who have generously shared their experiences so that others like myself can learn and be better in our relationships. I have heard it many times how important it is to use empathic listening / reflective listening. It is literally relationship 101. So simple yet so hard to consistently develop as a habit. Listening to the show and listening to the technique of reflective listening applied over and over to different situations is reminding me of how important it is to build this habit in my relationship ship. Thank you!
Xovavacavava
5 out of 5 stars
I recommend this to everyone, not just couples.
Esther Perez is a brilliant woman. This podcast opened my eyes and gave me the language to describe my own relationship. Very profound.
suman giri
5 out of 5 stars
Beautiful topic
The topics are truly amazing and could relate to few of the topics. The solution and explanation is totally different from what I thought. Yes I do listen at work. Thanks keep doing this!! Suman
MagsHinch
5 out of 5 stars
Insight is off the charts
She hears a whole different and much deeper conversation going on between a couple. I love her own personal review and insight that she has about herself and choices she makes in the sessions. I binged all of these and it has left me wanting more. Highly recommended.
JFavia
5 out of 5 stars
Makes You Think
These sessions make you think about your own relationship and where you could do a little house cleaning and introspection. Nothing shocks her and nothing disgusts her. Dr Ruth in a modern young package!
melskip
5 out of 5 stars
Love it !!!
Very informative and helpful
!Alas!
5 out of 5 stars
Makes you reflect on your own life
This is a great podcast. What Esther Perel does here is a public service. By letting us eavesdrop on her clients’ conversations and on her own thoughts, she is helping people like me learn more about the underlying patterns in our own lives, about our deepest motivations, and about the human condition.
Madgradstudent
5 out of 5 stars
One of my favorites
Esther is truly magic. She has a way of facilitating genuine and raw conversations. I’ve learned so much through these episodes, and it gets me thinking about ways I can be a better partner. Please release the next season!
Saljo52
5 out of 5 stars
Where are you?
I’m having Where shall we begin withdrawal, hurry!
Anabl89
5 out of 5 stars
Love it but
Love the podcast but i just wanna say how full of crap is the man in season 2 episode 7. I tried to be open minded but the crap was too obvious.
Kcampbell824
5 out of 5 stars
Refreshing and insightful
Esther delves into issues that I think many couples encounter over the course of their marriage or partnership - though sometimes presented in the extreme in the sessions. It’s wonderful to hear people be so honest about their experiences. Every episode is different and provides new insight into your own relationships.
silsilsoylatte
5 out of 5 stars
So necessary!
How great to be able to hear about the complexity of being in a relationship. Esther Perel is so smart and warm! It's very moving that couples are willing to share their personal experiences. Beautiful (and very necessary) podcast!
Breeboo27
4 out of 5 stars
New Episodes please!
Been waiting for new episodes for a month now- are there going to be new ones soon?
Jschneier
5 out of 5 stars
Better than you think it will be
This genuinely helped me to process some complex things in my life. I highly recommend
Coloradoorbust18!
5 out of 5 stars
More,please!
Please bring this back!
martin_ps
5 out of 5 stars
One of the best podcasts in existence.
This show has been transformative for me and my girlfriend. I learn so much every time and see myself & my family in so many of these situations. It’s really beautiful.
JT in 562
5 out of 5 stars
Five Stars
I am rating five stars because Esther is great at what she does. Truthful, compassionate, gentle advice.
jeneschulz
5 out of 5 stars
Brilliant
I learn something about relationships and myself every time I listen to her. I love her calm style and her terrific insights.
AishwaryaSingh
5 out of 5 stars
Best relationship podcast ever!
I am still in aw of this postcast! I heard everything in like 2days! It’s so mind blowing and empowering! Like no other podcast! It’s a must watch for everyone!
velasaa
5 out of 5 stars
So real
I love that she has real couples and their real voices! Its like watching an educational soap opera...
Feeffffff
5 out of 5 stars
Best podcast I ever listened.
Great starting point if you want to really understand what it takes to build relationships upon hurdles.
Pepemando
5 out of 5 stars
Listening to the work of a great therapist
It’s an honor to be let in on the very private lives of these couples and their struggles. I hope this can open up conversation and help couples recognize themselves in these other couples and seek out help. Or at least reflect on their place in the relationship. I also appreciate the times Ester will talk about a moment missed or a mistake she made while in session. An honest portrayal of therapy that, as a therapist, inspires me to keep learning and to be authentic.
CGallagher123
5 out of 5 stars
My Favorite Yet
This is an amazing podcast with something for everyone. I begin thinking that nothing I'm hearing applies to me, my marriage is not falling apart, we're straight without gender issues, we don't have any true resentment. But I have yet to walk away without a pearl of wisdom that I hadn't thought about before or that now has added context and depth, that I can immediately apply to my life and relationships. After each episode, I find myself processing what I've heard. Looking forward to more!
nani_24
5 out of 5 stars
This is sooo raw and just honest.
Brutally honest, raw and simply real life. Thank you for allowing us into these therapy sessions.
4759272749
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing regardless of your relationship status
I'm so glad I found this podcast, it's interesting, relatable and emotional. Regardless of your relationship status I think there's a lesson in each episode on how we can better connect with, communicate with, and love the people in our lives.
Em M. Bee
5 out of 5 stars
Fantastic.
I find myself applying a lot of Esters advice in my own interactions. Love the structure of these episodes, the raw emotion, and Esters confident, soothing voice. I hope these will continue!
missyparks
5 out of 5 stars
Riveting
Amazing content and fantastic process. I love listening and learning. Wish I could meet her!
Kaitimo
5 out of 5 stars
Incredible
I have nearly cried due to several episodes. Some have hit quite close to home and others have opened my eyes to issues I could face in the future. I love her views and her intelligence is astounding. I learn so much from every episode.
Unica Sola
5 out of 5 stars
The only I therapy/psychology podcast I love!
Esther Perel is an extraordinarily insightful, smart, and generous therapist. She is fascinating and wonderful. Love the podcast. Love that she exists in this world. If only there were more therapists as skilled as she is! I suspect it would cut the divorce rate in half!
BryannaDee
5 out of 5 stars
Obsessed
The world needs more of this
MeganEM25
5 out of 5 stars
Something everyone should listen to
At many times heart wrenching, but often times insightful, this is a podcast everyone should listen to as it deals with issues so many are facing or know someone who is. Beyond that though, it gives insight into what some people deal with privately on a daily basis. So very worth a listen.
DvGuts
5 out of 5 stars
Esther is a genius!
Since reading Mating In Captivity I have wanted to meet Esther and schedule a therapy session with her for my husband and me, but didn’t know if or when we could fly to NY to do it. Until that day comes (and it will), I have this podcast to listen to and learn from. Thank you, Esther, for the gift you give to couples everywhere by letting us listen to you work your magic. ❤️
BernCordero
5 out of 5 stars
Sanity Check
This is a sanity checker for couples that feel alone or question if the ebbs and flows of life together is .... normal. Thanks and please release more podcasts.
TinaFireS
5 out of 5 stars
More more more
We need more of these things like this. She has such an esthetic voice. Not so mundane like a lot of the other podcasts. This is REAL. RAW. AND RELEVANT. In each podcast I can find myself or my relationship issues.
Inthecusp
5 out of 5 stars
Esther is amazing
I love love love every word that she speaks. Wise, humble, thoughtful, kind, patient. If only every therapist could be an Esther.
Sir Oyston
5 out of 5 stars
Esther Opened My Mind
I listened to her TED talk and it made me rethink my whole relationship with my wife. Now I have the podcasts. So happy to have the extra insight on how couples work together.
dinosaurchestra
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful Listening
Esther is a genius. I’m learning so much from this podcast.
ASapGirl
5 out of 5 stars
Brilliant!!
More, more, more please!! The world needs this...
nadls
5 out of 5 stars
Cant get enough
What an awesome podcast; I just cant get enough!
Tumesense
5 out of 5 stars
Brilliant
I love listening to Esther — I always learn something new. Thank you to the couples who were brave enough to allow us to hear their stories and learn from the discussion.
Katinak
5 out of 5 stars
My favorite podcast
I learn SO much about the dynamics of relationships. I listen to many different podcasts and hands-down this is my favorite.
Decarvm
5 out of 5 stars
Just amazing every time!
Esther is just the best! And the stories are so captivating and relevant to anybody’s own life! I’ve learned so much from this podcast and it has made my commute fun! I sometimes get nervous I won’t be able to finish the episode during my commute and will have to wait until go back home to find out about the ending!
SharoninDC
5 out of 5 stars
I am learning a lot!
As a clinician, I find Esther Perel informative, effective, and experienced. As a human being, I find her captivating and compelling. Listening to her conducting sessions is to be allowed into the room of the master. She is artful, and authoritative yet deeply compassionate. She gets to the heart of the couple’s issues based on their attachment style and history and can quickly summarize in depth the heart of what has happened, as well as suggest what needs to happen to improve or save the relationship. While some are not to be saved—Esther has no pretensions that any of them will, that is not her objective, as it should be for any couples therapist—she defines the dynamic to help couples understand. Esther often gives a summation monologue at the end of the show, at times indicating follow up with the couple, which is insightful and interesting. I also enjoy that there are a large range of relationships featured; LGBTQ, races, ethnicities, cultures, married/unmarried, children/no children, yet any couple could have any of the issues involved. The choice of who is featured highlights the commonality of relationship dynamics rather than separate them. All in all, a unique and fantastic podcast!
Aislinn84
5 out of 5 stars
Necessary listening
Here I am crying while listening to a couple I've never met work through infidelity in their marriage. Esther asks questions that you don't expect and that make you think about your own relationships, regardless if you've personally experienced the same problems as the couple. Can't wait to make my way through the rest and think of my own marriage in new ways.
Trav44
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing
I love Esther! Her books and TED talks, speeches, and this!! You can apply every episode to your life even if the situations don’t fit specifically. Incredible.
Karma R
5 out of 5 stars
Illuminating
Ester Perell takes such nuanced and compassionate view of our human condition. I appreciate the insight and process she shares in these podcasts. A Wonderful opportunity to learn ! Thank you.
V:.
5 out of 5 stars
Love her!!!
My favorite podcast!
54peep
5 out of 5 stars
Insightful & Compelling
I have learned something from every one.
charlamaigne
5 out of 5 stars
So insightful!
Can’t explain in words why I this podcast feels so amazing. I don’t know what exactly it is. But even just the part of (watching) hearing other people being truthful & honest with their partner is incredible. Esther has a very special way of reaching to the core of an issue, & she’s helping these couples find the truth that’s not feeling right for them. It’s amazing! Couples therapy at its best!
Shannondianne
5 out of 5 stars
Wow
All I can say is wow! So informative and nurturing and not aggressive. Esther is phenomenal and a great extractor of info and feelings. What a listener. I love this podcast.
CJ41688
5 out of 5 stars
Esther is a force of nature
I am captivated by every single episode. Thank you to the couples for their courage and to Esther for eliciting truth and grace.
peter devine
5 out of 5 stars
gobsmacked in the best way possible..
esther’s style of therapy and insight has given me chills in how she’s able to cut through the BS through her counseling but also giving her clients the space and ability to put into their own words of what they’re absorbing or “hearing” from not only her but from their partners as well . my own personal therapist thought i’d get a lot out of these podcasts , especially the the one titled “ trauma and touch” and it didn’t disappoint! as a hopeful “ helper” as my therapist calls of those who want to get into the world of counseling and wanting to be a therapist one day , i feel like i’m being shown of what good quality therapist out there are like esther perel and jacki larusso!
Itsjuanitahh
5 out of 5 stars
Personal Therapy
This podcast is a breath of fresh air. I’m married & in love, and feel like I have strong lines of communication with my significant other. This podcast has made me learn new ways to approach situations and to reflect upon my behavior and how I go about loving and communicating with my husband. I’m so excited to listen to these on the way to work and to discuss my “learnings” with husband and friends. This podcast is for everyone! Single, in a relationship... everyone. It is emotional, eye opening and will make you think about how you communicate and “love”.
buckybucbuc
1 out of 5 stars
Good if you like horrible things
Wild invasion of privacy only good for gossiping middle aged woman who are on the brink of divorce. Way to publicize horrible advice and assure the American people that nothing in sacred anymore.
Never got my pony
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing and Moving
Can’t wait to hear more! I love how diverse the couples are!
Mamosa Momma
5 out of 5 stars
Podcasts
Love listening and learning about people and relationships. Keep up the good works Esther. Love your podcasts
:) ;) Misfit
5 out of 5 stars
Wow 😱
Just. Amazing. I’m starting my masters in marriage and family therapy this fall and I found this extremely helpful to be in the therapy room. Excited to listen to more from Esther Perel. 🙏🏽👍🏽🕉🔆touching my soul 🌲🌱💙💚💛🧡❤️💜🖤and learning
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- 38
- Subscribers
- 573
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- Last upload date
- March 11, 2023
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- Love In War with Esther Perel: UkraineIn this session Esther counsels a couple torn apart by the war in Ukraine. Young sons divided between a mother who leaves for the sake of her youngest. And a father who stays with the oldest for the sake of their country. This episode was done in partnership with The International Trauma Studies Program and One Ukraine. (Ukrainian and English language transcripts available at http://www.estherperel.com/love-in-war-en)0 comments0
- I've Had 100 Conversations With You In My Head, Part 2We first met them three seasons ago in the painful aftermath of an infidelity. She was diagnosed with an STD during a routine visit to her OBGYN, leading to the revelation that her husband had been visiting sex workers. Four years later, they’re still together, but old wounds persist. Transcripts for this episode are available at https://www.estherperel.com/podcasts/wswb-s5-episode10.0 comments0
- Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Jun 23 · 27m Esther Calling - I Need Her to See MeIn this latest episode of Esther Calling, we meet a young woman looking for advice on how to stand up for herself in a fraught and traumatic relationship with her mother. She worries the trauma and violence she experienced in upbringing is dictating how she responds to authority figures elsewhere in her life. The transcript for this episode is available at https://www.estherperel.com/podcasts/wswb-esther-calling-i-need-her-to-see-me .0 comments0
- Esther Calling - Still Single at 40In this episode of Esther Calling, Esther meets a man who’s never been in a relationship for more than five months. As he approaches age 40, he knows the reason lies with him, and not the women he’s dating. Esther encourages him to look back and see if the clues can be found in his early parental relationships. Perhaps the work starts there. The transcript for this episode is available at https://www.estherperel.com/podcasts/wswb-esther-calling-still-single-at-40.0 comments0
- We Started As An AffairEsther says in this session, “a love story is between two people, a marriage engages an entire community of people.“ Here we see how that plays out when the relationship in question is the result of an affair; when it means the dissolution of two prior marriages and the breaking up families. How does this couple write their own two-person love story when there’s "an entire community of people" with a stake in the plot? The transcript for this episode is available at https://www.estherperel.com/podcasts/wswb-s5-episode9.0 comments0
- Esther Calling - Stuck In the MiddleHe prides himself on being an empathic confidante to his friends…but is it to a fault? In this episode of Esther Calling, we meet a man fed up with being the container for his friends’ relationship woes. But, he wonders, can I put up barriers without losing the intimacy of those friendships?0 comments0
- Esther Calling - I Deserve to Be a MotherShe longs for a child, but her partner isn’t there yet, and as a trans woman she already faces other barriers to parenthood. She worries she’s letting her partner’s indecision dictate her own future happiness. She and Esther navigate the delicate dance between exerting her own wishes within the relationship, without letting the pressure shut down the conversation altogether. The transcript for this episode is available at https://www.estherperel.com/podcasts/wswb-esther-calling-still-single-at-40.0 comments0
- You Want Me to Watch the Kids While You Go Out With Other Men?, Where Are They NowWhen Esther first met with them two years ago, they’d recently opened up the marriage. At the time only she had ventured out, and after a lifetime of feeling her sexuality wasn’t her own, she felt an awakening. But at what expense? Her newfound freedom seemed to result in his misery. This time around, they are both exploring elsewhere, but the subject of their non-monogamy takes a backseat to other foundational stories within their marriage.0 comments0
- Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel May 12 · 18m Esther Calling - Having Needs Doesn't Make You NeedyHe’s in a new relationship and wants it to be exclusive, but he can’t get a read on his partner's feelings. It’s hard for him to have an open honest conversation about his needs without feeling weak, especially when he’s met with silence from her. Esther encourages him to feel confident in his vulnerability and to not mistake having needs for “neediness.”0 comments0
- Twice Married, To Each OtherThey were married, divorced, and then married again. And with four kids between them, tensions run high. They fight about everything: the chores, the cats, who gets to tell who what to do. They come into the session with one story and Esther helps them write an alternate version.0 comments0
- Esther Calling - Will He Make The Space For MeHer new boyfriend’s wife died four years ago. Reminders of her are all over his house, from her clothes in the closet to her photos on the wall. It makes the caller feel uncomfortable and inadequate. She wonders if there’s room in his house — or his heart — for her.0 comments0
- Esther Calling - It's a Matter of PrideIn another episode of Esther Calling, he worries his desire for a serious relationship is putting women off. But early in their phone call, it becomes clear to Esther that he’s talking about a particular woman from his past. He describes his feelings for that woman as “intense”, whereas she was more ambivalent. Esther and the caller explore the question: when is yearning for someone’s unreciprocated feelings more about pride and getting what you want than it is about that other person?0 comments0
- I Can Be Strong and Be Taken Care OfAs Esther says, love is at once an affirmation and a transcendence of who we are. But when one partner grows up as the child taking care of his mother is it any surprise that he experiences the romantic needs of his partner as a repeat of that same responsibility rather than an affirmation of love.0 comments0
- Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Dec 23 · 1h 6m I Don't Mean to Be Mean, But...She has no boundaries, he’s walled off. And their opposing communication styles cause immediate tension in this explosive session. So much so, that Esther finds herself adding to the chorus of angry voices. There might only be three people in this session, but Esther realizes she needs at least three more chairs for the in-laws whose voices and opinions are always playing in the background of this marriage.0 comments0
- An Intimate Evening with Esther PerelYou are invited to an intimate evening with Esther Perel. In place of this week's session we gather for a few rounds of Where Should We Begin, A Game of Stories. Over the last year to curtail the loneliness and isolation we all felt, Esther and team created a game out of the questions you often hear her ask on the podcast. So please come play a few rounds with her anonymously, of course.0 comments0
- Before We Got Together I Identified As GayBefore they got together, he identified as straight and they identified as gay. What does it mean to make space for their queer identity while they date a straight man? And is that possible as they move into a more serious phase of their relationship?0 comments0
- Where Are They Now - A Romantic RevivalFor the first time on the podcast, Esther invites a couple back to her office for a second session. 10 years ago, his first wife took her own life. A year later he met his current wife and she became an overnight stepmother to four children. Three years after they first spoke to Esther, she asks them what has changed? Have they been able to revive and sustain their love despite all of the obstacles? Listen to the original episode from Season 2 here.0 comments0
- Friendship - My Reliable GiftIn a Where Should We Begin first, Esther sits down with two friends. They’ve been close for so long they feel like brothers, with all of the baggage that comes with family but none of the certainty. There are things that go unspoken between them, issues they have skimmed over in their two decades of friendship. Esther creates the space for the conversation they didn't know quite where to begin. This session was recorded in collaboration with NPR's Invisibilia and a sibling episode with Esther can be heard on their podcast this week as well.0 comments0
- Esther Calling - Losing My Best FriendIn this second episode of Esther Calling, we meet a woman who feels she is losing her best friend. The caller feels that her friend is rushing into a marriage to someone she doesn’t approve of. During the call Esther talks her through a new way to see their relationship and where to go from here.0 comments0
- Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Nov 11 · 19m Esther Calling - My Partner's PrivilegeThis time there is no couch, but instead an unexpected phone call from Esther to a woman who is struggling with the differences between her and her partner's upbringing. He grew up in a comfortable suburb, she grew up having less, much less. She loves her boyfriend but wants to get past the resentment she feels towards the opportunities he’s had. Esther helps her think through how these differences might also play into new strengths between them.0 comments0
- He Gets the Respect, She Gets the Toilet Paper | How's Work?Married for ten years and co-owners for seven, they bring their home dynamic to work with them. Their employees are sick of the fights and the struggles for power and control, and so are they. Meanwhile, she also worries their roles at their gym have been divided along gender lines. This is one of Esther's favorite episodes from How's Work?, her show about the invisible forces that shape workplace dynamics, connections, and conflict through one-time therapy sessions with coworkers, cofounders, and colleagues.0 comments0
- If I Quit, What Will People Say? | How's Work?He’s a doctor, she works for the government. Her job is one thing on paper, and another thing in secret. He wants to leave his job, but doesn’t know how. When their busy careers come crashing to a halt because of the pandemic, they face a new reality at home. Who gets to be the one to leave a job during uncertain times? And can they rely on their 19 year marriage for stability and support? This is one of Esther's favorite episodes from How's Work?, her show about the invisible forces that shape workplace dynamics, connections, and conflict through one-time therapy sessions with coworkers, cofounders, and colleagues.0 comments0
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