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Ghosting in friendships
The Naija Lifestyle
One, two, three, action.
Oh, I didn't last enough.
I had a bed. No bed.
Hey guys, welcome to another manga episode of the Nayanjada Estabric Cup.
Well, well, well, I know we never give any notes that are going to be absent for some tempo.
Right now we're back, and we are here with some love manga episodes.
But I'm not doing this ever today. I have some body, a friend, my G.
I have Platinum for these people. Let's just call that with your laugh.
With your soul, I do.
I have fun now, my guy.
And the other side.
Nice, nice. So I was poking down every time.
Introduce yourself to us now.
I know you're ready. That's how it's not for you.
Hi, guys. My name is Tokusari Tila.
I can't call me with you. That's just on my phone.
For my son news.
Who are you laughing now?
Oh, G. No, I don't know.
I don't know. Oh, G. You know what I know, yeah.
So I just kill down a little like that.
Just kill me like that.
So guys, yeah.
It's a topic for today. Before we get into the topic,
like mostly everybody would have out this kind of experience.
Experience is old. I've been in this situation.
Like you just did your own.
Like you have friends now.
But the way you're not to you and everything.
Just do your own. Like at times,
if people want the entire color of this kind of things.
Yeah.
Which is what's in my friendships.
Yeah, you would see how far was your technologies.
You feel like.
Hello.
Well, funny enough, like three days ago,
something I saw. It's with Sasuke mid.
That we all do Sasuke.
Sasuke for a bit.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
She made it with about our best friend.
Gustad.
And she has been okay.
I guess since last six, six years.
And she has been okay.
After our best friend, Gustad.
I, as a person as well,
I've experienced Gustad in friendship.
Like three.
Let me just say.
Sorry, sorry.
So the coach showed a good thing in what context.
Gustad.
Like the person who sat here in.
No.
Okay.
No form of excuses.
Nothing.
Nothing.
Did you stop talking to you?
Oh.
Okay.
Okay.
We thought, we thought,
I've been in this understanding.
Yeah, we thought, I've been in this understanding.
I think that's what's basically about a ghosting.
Like, then just disappear and leave in you.
Hi.
Okay.
But yeah.
There are definitely some situations.
Right.
You got your friends.
You got the votes.
You got the knowledge notes.
You're still at all.
But not to get a D.
That can't be.
No.
See, where I don't count down when I was ghosting.
No, Mal.
We are adults.
So anything so if you get it now.
No, I'm sorry.
Let's see.
That's just in our life.
So that's why we're doing talk regularly again.
Okay.
Because I know many, many, many people.
Like, no, no matter if you ask students,
and we are affected by this as a strategy.
If any of us have been at home for five months.
Five months.
You know.
Yeah.
And since February.
And we thought as to this statement,
they made, I think it was yesterday or two days ago.
We did.
Most of you won't be charged with immigrants.
Girl, love.
And in this case of that five months.
Many people have never reached out to their friends.
They're not even themselves normally.
Apart from people who live up.
They're not allowed for usually.
And I've seen.
You know, doing.
Okay, not.
I've not seen it on 2,000.
Much as you.
I've seen it on WhatsApp.
What's up, you see?
I know you're going to know.
Yes, now.
Like now.
You will know.
Well, that's tough.
Does it count?
Since you're is.
You made a statement.
Like what?
Does that count now?
Thank you.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Let.
Let me just say.
I'll put up points for that.
Because some people.
You can't really blame them.
They are not good bits.
This social media are saying.
So they're not.
You can't.
So always talk on social media.
Those.
So I can't really blame them.
For someone that you get to see everyday.
Then you know, seeing them.
There's a tendency that.
A.
A.
Your form of communicating.
We reduce.
That's just it.
True.
That's true.
But.
You know, sometimes quite an amount of people like.
I don't know.
I'm the only one.
Okay.
Let me just.
Like, since these strikes started like.
It got a point that I don't want them.
I didn't even.
Just rest.
Like.
Even.
You know about it.
You know about it.
I just took a break.
I was surprised.
Like I don't want them.
I just.
I mean.
Seeing.
Seeing.
Seeing.
This.
Striking.
It's to make friendships.
And it's to my friendship.
I think we go closer.
Let only one strike as well.
Right.
Am.
I'm.
Right.
We've got closure.
You're going to be all right.
If.
All right.
You're copy.
Okay.
So.
This.
I mean.
It's to.
It's make friendship and it's a strange relationship.
It's just let.
OK, let's get.
From.
And then the network.
Okay, let's look at it from eye.
In, so.
tched.
What do you want to do about that?
What's with you doing that kind of situation?
It's more that they really go stage.
Life happens, you get it.
Life happens and that kind of situation
safe, like divide good times, like to move.
Like you're not even in the same environment again.
You can't see our guys, see it's in soap, yeah, yeah, yeah.
You can't entirely in different locations.
You don't know what's okay.
For instance, now you're in Nigeria.
Isn't it on that continent?
Contrary not happening. So the time zone entirely is very different.
You're going to be free at this game 10,000,000.
Exactly. Exactly.
So you can't really call that ghost that you get.
This life up on you.
Yeah, definitely work.
This topic safe, not on the unit's course.
Well, bye.
Good thing.
But, is it only for information that people go
in China?
No, no, relationships.
Ghosts have been so for relationships.
Why does?
For relationships, you're not building
all the words.
I don't understand the rules.
So for how to take myself for a list of
if, okay, I have mood swing.
Please don't just message me.
I just want to, even if like, even if we're together.
No, don't go through it and just be looking at me.
I just want to.
Well, so.
Okay, let's wait. So what's new that you're having mood swing?
Look.
So yeah, my partner, you have to know when they've read these thoughts.
Just listen to those, so we don't know.
Okay, let me shout.
But, some extent, I feel, you know, maybe, like I said,
building, being a subject with you.
Like, the first episode, I was like,
down a lot, but someone asked,
this topic, now French and ghosting in French,
I'm not just French if they do.
Someone else in Skyrim, I think, like,
being a person.
Of course, yes, for someone to like,
ghost like you get to the apple for this life.
As in since they all caught this, they saw.
They all.
Yeah.
And some people, like,
this thing, like, they were like,
they were like, sheep.
And, sure.
Like, normally, they're very active with people.
Assignar.
And, yeah.
You message people, like,
this will never reply you.
They can intentionally reply your message
after our, I mean, just for you or just for you to know that.
They don't, they're not interested to see.
I mean, they're talking or French for something.
And it seems, I think I was doing this.
I think I have a body, you know, to say,
to post something that's not done, just like,
and it's not done, don't go straight to the door.
Yeah.
Now, if you look at Amy, have we, let's stop this,
Amy, have you?
They all.
Such as life.
And it's not like, they're all like,
they're all like, yeah.
But, sure, we told to,
one is strike, I think.
A lot of French, you know,
not really, I will have put this in English.
I don't know one more.
But, yeah, not English, I think.
But, a lot of, I, a lot of,
a lot of, not really got in touch with each other.
It's, it's, it's, it's like,
um, it, very, very, very good as, um,
example of this stuff.
Yeah, some people, it's not as if
I don't remember them.
I have them on my mind.
But, you get, you know, message them
and testing what's of this and that,
has been a big deal for me.
Well, life happens, like I said, life is happening
to all of us right now.
So, I mean, nobody there.
That's just it.
And I think this period is,
really testing relationship,
I said relationship, I'm sorry,
friendship, foundation,
so, I should not, everything in general.
Okay, general, like this,
traditionally, um, testing the foundations.
No, my, if not, just good vibes,
vibes that you shall have.
In a day, day before.
You guys were originally kind of,
friends, you have not.
So, one more, one more, one more show.
You need to start playing your cards right again.
Like, okay, this one,
let's see, we're going to do what we do, they're not doing.
Well, actually, it's all meant,
it's all, but, you know,
you said, like, you're not just moved to,
just because we're not days in my, like, for me.
But we see, I don't remember what I would,
I'd be far close over, uh,
extra boots to cool down, but to cool down.
Depending on mood, like,
the mood, I am, like, I can't feel,
like, I want to talk this time.
I don't want to talk that.
Maybe we're just the most times.
Like, when to wrap up on this track,
like, maybe we said, we're on this,
some people who are doing the present,
every single one, anybody's agreeing to that.
That's kind of, because, like, okay,
you may say, so now,
like, you want to check on someone,
ah, you're not asking me this song to check on heard, Yeah, no bridge to the point.
The same, I think, I think,
like, many of us, our games let us know what it was so long
so good to say.
and send me a message to a song saying.
like, that's what I wanted to see me.
It's good to see friends.
We did this as a strike, not just me,
it's not just strike, right?
I'll just be like, I don't understand anybody.
And it's also good, so.
And if you go to the public,
the art of life,
you're going to go to the public,
and you also go to both norms.
I am not, my friendship is seen,
but it's my friend, I know it's a sitting day,
sitting in the town, both.
Everybody are not looking at me.
I do swear, boy, I'm a young man,
and we know him with the guard,
he just told me to talk with him.
It's not saying, I love every day,
so I'm sitting in the half an hour.
Like, once I'm sitting in the half an hour,
every day, we did it up and like that.
When you can't get,
you know what it's like,
you get up and up,
so you know what it's like to talk about,
and you don't like,
see me, it's not just racism.
I just, I just started chatting,
and chatting with both,
but I was making you very poor,
so I had to be dancing.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, yeah, okay.
Just listen.
Yeah.
Well, okay, what is your own take on
posting, affecting relationships?
Well, like we said,
during that time,
people got slight full of different kind of reasons.
So people with the mindset,
That's how they are, the effort of commitments.
Just don't want anything like commitment.
Once they see themselves guessing,
committed, they just leave.
They don't care, they just leave.
So people, this is it that they are depressed
or they are going to want issues, or they are that,
they just want to involve their partner, whatever.
They think maybe getting king,
their partner is not fit to understand what they are going to do.
They just leave.
And things like this make people question,
they're like, I don't know enough.
Do you know what you will, do you know what you think?
Do you know what you does?
I like to say that at the time as well,
we talked about building.
When one person is not having sex,
who's the direct, what would come from my life, Javier?
Javier, I'm not a dad, like, who is like,
I don't want to say that, yeah, that should be the one
carry in that responsibility, or it's responsible.
I know, I'm not experienced, I'm not experienced,
I'm not experienced, I'm talking to a friend.
And I owe a lot of all that is,
because I don't think I can't think of it.
Yeah, I was like, okay, have you had any experience?
Like, I want to do this,
go listen to your face, you're like,
have you had friends?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So yeah, yeah, go that bed, go go that bed,
see a, if you really, really know me,
like if you know me very,
then as long as you're my friend,
You might go trauma for you and you cry
and friendship for it was like,
if you like the first life where I come.
And those people are not different.
So this life across us, they were
like, Christians in England,
yeah, I will put up for my age.
Well, I've been good friends, what, before the person actually
was dead, most of the talking about back now,
Shab, once in a while, the person came back and said,
they're not comfortable with, but I was not talking.
Well, let's go back, go back to what I was saying.
Before, before the person was dead,
the word is a limited.
This, that, that, that, that, that, that,
the way we question, for something, I knew,
I wouldn't be able to give out, even if I gave it out,
I would not be genuine with it.
So, I don't know, give it out.
Yeah.
So, I have told them several times that, I can't give it this thing to you.
I don't think I'm happy with what's different to you.
Well, the person kept on pushing on pushing on pushing on.
At a point, the top, the job student,
they don't think, they are really, for this friendship,
for any longer, I designed that, blah, blah, blah.
And I said, okay, no problem.
We can't glass, we wish, I will not tie you down.
We can't glass, we wish, then, they left.
And at the second experience, the person just took it to me.
No, nothing, nothing.
There was no answer.
That's not in between us.
We see stuff, which are like,
during that week, then just talking to me.
And I tried my best.
Like, I was a part.
You get a person who just gave me five,
a week.
Like, what's up?
Do I just give me limits?
You know, like, I don't think I have strength for this,
I don't know what it is.
So I just let them play.
But the first person I was talking about,
they came back.
They came back.
Yeah, they came back.
So let me just say,
it was a partial question.
But the person who said, we stopped talking.
Well, yeah.
Well, I mean, I've been in that kind of friendship shop.
Ah, girls in friendship was really, really painful.
Like, just let me just say,
the friendship record,
also as painful as being sad breakfast.
Yeah.
See, the friend just said,
you've breakfast.
Then you start questioning yourself.
Then, like I said, sometimes life happens.
We outskrew each other.
But those ones aren't as sad.
Yeah, both.
They're still.
They don't understand it.
Don't treat each other.
Yes.
They don't understand it.
But then, some just start making you question yourself.
Like, did you not do enough as a friend?
As a person where you know reciprocates in their energy.
Stuff like that.
You start thinking.
Sometimes when you start blaming yourself,
like, oh, I think it's my fault.
I think I didn't know enough efforts.
I think this.
I think that may well,
which was just their own personal structure.
Hmm.
Wow.
This is the first thing.
Hmm.
Guys, it's really famous.
Like, people, people, people, people, people.
Like every morning, I'm far, far, guys.
You ready to watch?
Like, I've been in this situation.
But yeah, my friend, like, when I got out of the...
Just...
Not even good.
This is a, like, just a little bit of an instant.
You know, when I come down,
I come down and ask for food.
Like, because they pass each other.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
That doesn't make God for bridge.
I find my boyfriend that kind of thing.
Guys, I, I, I should read.
Because it's like, kind of, to know why I,
I know people that this, this shit made.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
You guys don't know what I mean.
Sometimes they say, um, they don't.
I don't know what I mean.
Some people are paid to, some people are that paid.
That's just it.
Like, much or they know.
How many of you, how many they are like,
to be mature enough to come out?
Wow, she, with another mood.
This kind of thing.
She, the wife in here.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I don't think, I've found myself in that kind of friendship.
I don't, I don't...
So, even...
I, even if my friends...
Even if that is to me now,
this year, even if my friends are really,
because they're not to get censor.
But I know,
I know we, we are both mature enough to talk about something.
When one person has drunk the other gets.
Sure.
Like, uh, I, if I know that you offended me,
I can't just accept that.
You were supposed to do that time.
I really didn't know like it.
And I don't have friends that they,
they're solid pride.
They just apologize.
I don't know.
And I know myself as a person.
If it's me, the,
was supposed to do that time.
I did not like it.
I would apologize for that.
I'm really sorry.
That I was no my intention.
I don't have the intention.
It's awesome.
So, although my friends are really asses,
they are really, really good people.
I'm not even joking.
My mouth is too,
my friends, man.
Those of you would have...
Look.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
But in my own case, man.
Where we are,
we are usually like that almost...
Part particular me,
Part tenth like...
I was suppose to take with you while second day there was even a stop taking off,
If it feels like they can't be under it,
what?
What, what is the space,
it wasn't planted?
I don't know, I don't know.
I don't like beats all day.
I don't understand but I say that.
There's no time.
That's not domain.
So basically,
I don't know how to understand this place,
like.
And what do you guys want to talk about?
Do you want to talk about everything from here?
Like?..
Yes, everything's going up,
so you know,
I see we've got a C yourself.
all the beefy chips.
That's all you, that's all.
So, the thick goes to like,
third parties will not stop.
Which is something wrong with both of you.
You're exactly the same.
Yeah, I understand, I understand.
I understand.
Both of them say,
for your own peace and sanity,
even in this friendship,
it's not everything.
Everything they do that,
you will just say,
they will defend that you are something.
Even if they will defend,
they're just have to value collect.
With this person,
my guy,
focus the day at times,
just move on with your life.
That's just sometimes,
I don't even show my friends that,
maybe they've offended me or anything.
I just let's go,
like,
walk down as well.
They will move,
we'll move again.
That's just the story.
Yeah, sure.
So, guys,
in my own opinion,
I feel,
apart from these good things,
okay,
generally,
like, let's try to,
if you know,
I know,
I'm seeing it like,
I'll assume.
It's like,
it's like,
wait,
this is,
wait,
this is,
we don't want to,
like,
I'll assume,
like,
I can't see,
I know there's,
somewhere,
this seems to be still now,
you know,
you get your friends,
I mean,
you have a friend or some friends,
like,
your own mind,
your feeling,
it's like,
your mind or they tell you,
you're not saying this person is very,
you feel like,
or you feel like,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make and,
if you don't make,
okay,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't if you don't make,
if you don't make,
you don't make,
if you don't,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you want,
okay,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't make,
if you don't,
oh,
if you don't make,
if you don't,
you you just making it put in a cold
like for just a minute or so can it's really good
don't be like to can save life
and you reach out on to do this adults
and everything is called
so a big big kind
big kind since you're there
a very good life
it's like this one
great like this
we have 100, 700 and 20
my brother
okay okay
but I should catch up
it's in there
I don't be good to be around you
exactly
just try to go on
based
capacity just try to like
show load like yours
then I'll load like yours
we can't do the one
because you know if you know who you are
you are doing to that person
that person might be very dark
and to be dark
when it's reach out to them
you brighten your day
or you are doing something
to like gifts of their mood
please please please
please
even if it's in that person
is not much energy
I'd like to try try
you have that strength
try and help them
because
you never can't tell
you might find yourself in the
situation also and do a video
and I'll be there for you
I'll be
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