Welcome to today's episode of the mindset Mentor podcast. I am your host Rob dial and if you have not yet done, so hit that subscribe button, since you never miss another podcast episode. And if you're out there and you live in the United States or Canada and you want to see, motivational text messages for me, text me right now, 1 5 1, 2 5 8 0 9, 3 0, 5, 1 7, 1 5, 1 2 5, 8, 0 9, 3, 0 5. Today. We're going to talk about how to become the person that you need to become in order to create the life that you want. And we're going to really talk about who you need to be versus what you need to do. And that's how we're going to start today. I want you to realize success is about doing things and whatever success means to you. That's completely different compared to any different person. I could walk up. So, the streets success means something different to everybody. Whatever success means to you. You're going to have to do things to get that done, then to achieve it, but more importantly, than actually doing those things is
Who you need to become in order to be the type of person that could create that life. And that's what we're going to talk about today. I'm going to make a guess if you're sitting here listening to the podcast of those. He has it on YouTube or Facebook or Instagram or you're watching this video and looking at me how to make a guess you're here, listening or watching this simply because there's something inside of you that tells you that there's more that you have more potential to bring out to the world. There's something inside of you that says, hey life is good, life is okay, but I could be so much better. I can make this so much more amazing. There's so much more that I could do. Whatever that means. I can, I can make more money. I can have more happiness. I can have more pee so I can have more joy. I can have more traveling. I can have more success. I could have more quality relationships. There's a part of you that makes, you know, deep down inside that you're nowhere near the level that you could be. That's probably why you were listening to this. Am I right?
Trying to level yourself up. You're trying to get to the next level, but I'm going to tell you this, whatever that perfect life is that you want the reason why you don't have it is because you're not yet the person that can attract that or you're not yet the person that deserves or can create that life. And so we're going to talk about is how to become that person. First off, figuring out what it is that you want. That's the most important thing then. Figure out who you need to become in order to do that. And then figuring out what you need to do in order to create that life. If you were already, the person that could create the success that you want, you know, 10, 20 years down the road, you would have already had that success. If you were the person that could create the life as you currently are that you want, you would have already had the success in the life, in the money, in the join, the peas, and the traveling, or whatever it is that you want. So what we're getting down to,
Is that it's you that needs to change and that's a beautiful thing. Is that puts you in the driver's seat that puts you full control of your life and where it's going. And that my friend is an amazing place to be. It is you that needs to change, but they also means it's nobody outside of you. You can't blame anybody else. You can't blame the government. Can't blame the president or whoever it is. That runs your country. You can't blame your family. You can't blame your education. It is you. It will always be you. That needs to change a create the life that you want. Some, if you are not driving and you can grab a pen and paper right now. Be a really good time to grab a pen and paper. The beautiful thing about the way that you guys are listening to me, as you can pause me at anytime and write anything that you need to down. Because this will be a time where you can, actually if you're driving, you can start thinking and in having the thoughts flow through your head, but there's two guys that can do this. You can literally start to write things down and that's a beautiful, somebody take you through it.
Thoughts. And I want to get really serious about this exercise. And the important thing of this, exercise, to realize that the more clear that you can become like, crystal crystal crystal clear. On every question that I asked the easier, it will be to get that because you can make a plan, the more clear your destination. The more clear, you can create a plan to get to that destination. Stop. Let's talk about it. Think of your perfect life in 10 years. So, if you're listen to this, the moment, it comes out. Let's say it's 20:31. How old are you in 10 years? For me? I would be 45 years old. So, if I look and I say, okay, what is the perfect life? Look for me. Look like for me. I'm 45 years old at that time. 20:31. What does that perfect life look like, and I want you to his detailed as possible. Write it all down and vision at think about it. Whatever it is. What is it that you want 10 years from today?
What do you want? What do you want to create? What do you want to know? What is your life look like, how happy are you? What else is going on in your life. Do you have beautiful relationships? Do you have children? Do you have a beautiful house? Where do you live? What is your family look like? What are your relationships look like? What is your success in life? Look like, what does your life look like in order to create the life that you want. What is it? What is it? I mean, it get as detailed as you possibly can, the house. Do you have multiple houses? Where do you live? Do you have multiple cars? Do you have the jury that you want the clothes that you want the Ferrari? The Lamborghini, like just dream as if there were no restrictions in the key. I was tell people is dream as if you're 4 years old again, know what it's like to be 4 years old. There was no limits on this Earth and what you could do anything was possible when you're 4 years old. So imagine that you 4 years old again don't place any self-limiting beliefs or don't hold your
Back in any sort of way. What I want you to do is dream. Like you're 4 years old, again, write down every single thing that you could think about, as to what it is that you want in your perfect future, write it all down. If you need to pause me, go ahead and hit the pause button. I promise I'll be here forever waiting for you if you decide to push play later on down the road. Okay. So now that we got this vision and wants you to more clear that we can become on the vision. The more clearly could become on the plan to get that vision and accomplish that mission rights were very clear on where we want to be in 10 years. Now. What I want you to do is imagine that somebody out there in the world already. Has everything that you want. They have the house. They have a family, they have the, the happiness, The Joy, the piece to love the relationships, the cars, the clothes, everything, they have everything that you want. I want you to know, focus on that person. And what we're going to do is work. I take your pen and paper and we're going to start.
Write down what that person is, like, what they do, what their traits are. I talked them self everything. So let's say that there's someone out there that has that perfect life and we're going to start talking about that person and don't act like it's you act like it's somebody else because it is somebody else that has a perfect life. Okay. So we're looking at that person, that has the perfect life that you want. I want you to ask yourself a lot of questions. What do they do on a daily basis? That person who has the life that you want. What do you think that they do? Right. So let's start with, let's go through their entire day. Okay, what time do they wake up? And obviously, when figuring out what time to wake up, what time, do they go to bed? What time you wake up to? Wake up at 4 to make a note? 5 6 7. What time is that person who has created the life? You want? What time do you think you wake up? Will you think their morning routine looks like? Do you think that they meditate? How often do you think they meditate, you think? They Journal? Do you think they read?
What do you think they do with their morning? How do you think they prepped himself to go out and conquer the world every single day. They've obviously Concord quite a bit already. What do you think got in there?
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What is the breakfast of the person who created the dream life that you want? Look like eggs, maybe some toast avocado. It's probably not something like, you know, steak and eggs might be a bit too heavy for them to go into the day. It's probably not a whole lot of bacon, that might be too heavy for them stopping at Pizza. I would assume what does their morning routine look like? What is there breakfast? Look like in the what is the rest of the day look like what is there early morning? Look like, what is there late morning? Look like what is there? Who are they talking with throughout this time? What is their lunchtime look like? Do they take out clients? What is it? They do. What is it that they do during lunch time to make your life better. How much time do you spend with their spouse? How much time do you spend with your kids? Where do they live? Where they traveling to do? They have their own jet to go on a meeting a few hours away.
What is it look like for them? What is there early afternoon? Look like put it all down in details. I want to get as detailed as you possibly can of what this person looks like. What is there late afternoon? Look like what is your evening look like what is their dinner time look like, do they drink a glass of wine? Do they not drink any alcohol? What do they do? Do they work out at any point in time throughout that day. Do they what what are the people that they surround themselves with? Like, how do they talk to themselves in their own heads?
How do they talk to other people how they build people up?
How do they relate to every single person around them that doesn't agree with their opinions? What type of person are they? Are, they kind? Are they sweet or they loving? Are they unconditionally loving with everybody? Get as detailed as you possibly can. What's our evening routine look like what time do they go to bed? Get as detailed as you possibly can. Okay. So now what we know is were very clear on what it is, you want in your life and where you want to go. Now we're very clear on the perfect type of person that has that life.
So we know what it is, if they do, we do we should know everything about the more clearly we can get the better.
And we go. Okay. So now I know what I want and now I know who I need to be every single day in order to get that life.
Because success is not something that you shoot after success is a byproduct of who you are and what you do on a daily basis.
Mr. Again, success is not something that you shoot for success is something that you get as a by-product for who you are and what you do on a daily basis. So then what we should be focusing on is who we need to be in order to create the life. We want, not necessarily what we need to do because if we're the type of person that can create that they're automatically going to do the things that need to be done. Make sense. Once again, it's not who you need to be. I'm sorry. I saw what you need to do in order to get the life that you want. It's who you need to be in order to get the life that you want. So now you have the perfect version of who you need to be and you have your current self. So now what we're going to do is we're going to what I call find the Gap from where you currently are. Right now is a person.
And who you need to be in order to get that life and let's bridge the gap. Let's figure out what you're doing right currently and what you're doing wrong currently and I want you to figure out like what is that person do? What do they not do? Do they go to bed early? And you stay up late. Do they wake up early? And you stay. Stay in bed late. Do they eat really healthy and you eat like shit, do they work out every single day? And you don't workout, do they talk positively to themself enough affirmations and meditate and you don't talk positive to yourself. You never meditated before like what is the discrepancy between you and that person? Because we need to identify that so that we can start to become that person and stop doing the things that that person wouldn't do and start doing the things that person would do.
In simply what we do is we act, as if as if wake up today, don't even wake up today right now, when you turn off this episode act, as if you already are that person, cuz if you're the type of person that already has that success, that holds himself to that high Spinners. That doesn't they say, they're going to do that wakes up at that time, that treat people the way that people should be treated with kindness and respect that that gets rid of toxic people and only surround himself with people who are pushed themselves and doing something amazing in the world and trying to support each other. In people that are motivating Charter to be better all points in time. Because now we've found out who you are and we thought I'd who you need to be. Now. What we need to do is we need to step into being that person every single day. Now, here's the key self-awareness is the is the most important part of this. Because when you start to notice yourself do something that the perfect version of you wouldn't, do you need to be kind to yourself. Don't be like a dumbass. I can't believe you did this again.
Because it takes takes a while to change. You can't just change, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 years of programming like that. So when you notice yourself slip into your old patterns that are not the patterns of that perfect version of you. In 10 years, what you need to do is you need to go up. Yep. I messed up. So it's the perfect version of me would not have done. What I just did. What would they do? Are they would have done this? Okay. That's what I'm going to do and you start making little adjustments, little to MMM adjustments in all aspects of your life. And instead of being hard on yourself, instead of judging yourself. You just slowly start to make little adjustments. Little adjustments at this picture. If you've ever gotten a suit tailored know, if you've ever gotten a dress tailored, right, when you go into the tailor, they put it on you and then they do the measurements. And they try it out and they build it for you. And then you come back and they do the measurements. They tried out and make a little bit of adjustments. That's kind of how stepping into the new version of yourself is it's like tailoring yourself to be the perfect version of stopping. Something's going to fit correctly, something not going to fit correctly. You're not supposed to shift and moving.
All that stuff. So what's beautiful about this now is that this this ten-year goal that we have for herself is actually not the goal. That's not what I'm shooting for. Now. What I'm shooting for is to be the person that could create that like 10 years from now because that life is just a byproduct of how that person operates in the world. And so if you want to create the amazing life that you see in your dreams, 10 years down the road from now, you got to focus on shifting yourself. Moment-by-moment moment-by-moment and ask yourself the question, you know, is what I'm doing right now. Getting me closer to her for the, for my goal. I'm looking at him like, okay. I want to create this amazing life in 10 years, and I'm sitting there on Instagram on the couch for 2 hours. I ask myself is what I'm doing right now. Give me closer to her for the, for my goals. Pretty damn sure. Being in this car for 2 hours, get any further away from my goal. So, I immediately make a shift and I asked myself. What would the perfect version of me? Do mice? Like, if you have some of those does wwjd, what would Jesus do?
Bands from the late 90s, early 2000 the same thing. What would the perfect version of me? Do what were the perfect version? Me do was the perfect version me. Do and do what you do is you just start doing what that perfect version of you would be doing and you access it and slowly but surely you're going to realize that your life is Shifting your Shifting. The reason why your life to shipping is because you're shipping, you're changing your making small incremental changes every single day and overtime, those small incremental changes compound to make massive massive, massive changes in your life. And we see people who built these amazing businesses and their multi-billionaires than 12 months. And we think that that's how life is. No, that's like a small percentage. I sent anonymously normal businesses, in normal bodies of recruiting perfect body in normal mindsets, trying to create the best mindset. All of those things. Take time to build its small incremental changes compounded over a year.
Years and years, and years and years. Someone who's a multi-millionaire when you see someone who's super happier successful as much an amazing relationship. All of the things you're seeing somebody who didn't get this overnight. You seeing somebody who put intention into certain parts of their life and worked at it and worked at it and worked it for years. What would the best version of me be doing in ten years. So I'm going to do for the best be doing in ten years and is what I'm doing right now to give me closer to her further for my goal. I figure out what that perfect version we would do. And then all I have to do is just do it and watch in 10 years. Your life will be the life that you just planned out and saw your dreams because you were the person that could create that life. So that's what I got you for today's episode of you love it, So please start on your Instagram stories and tag me in it. Rob, dial Junior, and a massive thing that you could really do. If you've ever gotten value from anything I've ever said, please go onto iTunes or apple podcasts and give us.
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