As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!
In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.
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Reviews
lachelle1928
5 out of 5 stars
Grateful
We were in a typical vanilla marriage (and probably still are by some standards) but I can now talk to my wife about everything without feeling like I am being judged for my sexuality. We do feel very fortunate that we are able to orgasm with penetration and together a vast majority of the time (I have since learned we are in the minority on this), but it was getting very mundane and the spark was slowly fading. But now things have changed. I don’t linger at work because I want to get home to just be near her. I have completely changed the why behind what I do for her. My anxiety around sex is slowly fading and we are free to explore our bodies in ways we have never done. The shame I have felt around my sexuality from the time I was a youth is gone and I can talk to my wife and be fully known by her. I have had family on her podcast that have been clients for hers for about a year. She literally saved their marriage and I guess they were keeping Amanda to themselves. Can’t thank Amanda as well and Dan Purcell enough.
I'll be outside
5 out of 5 stars
Love this!
I don’t even know where to start - I have so much running through my head. The subject or even saying the word Sex was not one I grew up talking about. It carried over into my adult life, but after 25 years of marriage my views are changing. Thank you Amanda. I am learning to love myself, find beauty in my not so perfect body, and find confidence in who I am. I am grateful for a new way of thinking. For the conversations I have been able to have with my daughter and hopefully my sons some day. Two words keep standing out- CONFIDENCE and APPROPRIATE. Can I wear or do this with confidence and is it appropriate for the activity? I still have a long ways to go, but thank you for the beginning of a journey.
Kit & Ella
5 out of 5 stars
OUTSANDING
My husband and I have been listening for about a month we love how short and simple the podcasts are while also being powerful and life changing in a positive way. We are both returned mission, have been married for about 8 years and have an amazing relationship. The area we struggle with most is sex. We have listened to Jennifer Finlayson-Fife for about a year and have learned a lot. We like Amanda better because the podcasts are much shorter and get straight to the point.
Rn5811
5 out of 5 stars
So much good info on many layers
A friend of mine sent me a particular episode, knowing some struggles that I was dealing with with my child. After listening to that one episode I started from the beginning listening to this podcast from the very beginning. I have found excellent ways to try to connect with my child and the struggles that she is going through. Along with finding new ways to connect with my wife and understand her. And especially some really good insight into how I can improve myself. My wife and I are going through these episodes together and talking about what we have learned, and setting goals that elevate and make us both better people. I especially love the first podcasts. I know that a lot of this information is geared towards females or wives, however, I have taken many lessons from here that apply and I can use in my own life to be a better person. I have encouraged my wife to take to heart the messages in episode 2. To be a confident, strong women. She knows she is awesome, not because I tell her, but she knows for herself and views herself in that way. Thank you! Great content!
Marybeary12
5 out of 5 stars
Stepmom superhero
Amanda is incredible. I’ve been dealing with a lot of resentment and other negative feelings in my marriage and my role as stepmom to my 4 stepdaughters. Amanda has helped me really take a look at my thoughts and realize they are what cause my negative feelings. Simply focusing on gratitude has made a huge difference already. I only recently discovered this podcast, but I’ve already listened to all of the episodes and signed up to work with Amanda. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience to help others!
k wally
5 out of 5 stars
Don’t think, just listen!
There is such a need for this podcast in the Christian world. Amanda does such a wonderful job addressing common issues in intimacy. I can tell she puts a lot of time and effort into researching and coaching. Although I don’t struggle with everything she talks about, I have learned so much. She has a podcast for everything! I will forever listen to Amanda as long as she’s doing this podcast.
MontanaMama16
5 out of 5 stars
So, so helpful
I love this podcast! I have learned SO much and appreciate Amanda’s candor in talking about things we sometimes blush about. Her ease with the topics make it so easy to listen and open up to. I have taken things I have learned and brought them to the bedroom. My husband thanks you too!! Amazing work you are doing. I am a fan.
al-dogg
5 out of 5 stars
I’m messed up, but this helps
I’m a combat veteran with PTSD and other mental health illnesses. This podcast has helped me with my thinking tremendously. It helps me sort out all the clutter in my head and heart and how to take the next step forward, especially when I don’t want to or know how to. I am realizing much of the marital distress I go through is from habitual toxic thoughts. I have a long ways to go, but there is much helpful information here.
amylyx97
5 out of 5 stars
She helps me heal!
I found Amanda’s podcast when I was struggling in my marriage and contemplating divorce. I originally started listen from the very beginning and her divorce story helped me. Sadly I did also get divorced but as I have continued to listen to what she shares I have been filled with more hope for what kind of marriage I can have when I get married again! And more importantly how I can create a better sex life than the one I had before!
wa500k
5 out of 5 stars
Thank you
Absolutely amazing keep up the good work
jmommers
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing
Amanda’s podcast and courses have brought new insights and enjoyment to our 44 year old marriage!
crpaz12
5 out of 5 stars
Amanda puts into words everything I’ve been feeling
Amanda puts into words everything I’ve been feeling!
Rcush10
5 out of 5 stars
Sex life game changer
This podcast is soooooo good. My wife and I have been working hard on our marriage and intimacy and listening to this podcast together has been incredibly helpful in creating a better dialogue on these topics. Amanda does such a good job articulating the many hang ups and obstacles we’ve had and experienced.. and then also house better to navigate through them or at least how to communicate better around them. So many light bulb moments that have been both thought provoking as well as so validating! Our sex life has never been better!! Thank you Amanda!!!
BenKaJoffe
5 out of 5 stars
Gives Help to Husbands
Are you a husband who is in love with his wife but you sometimes wonder what goes on in her mind? This podcast will be a resource for you. Don’t be dissuaded because it is meant for women. Amanda speaks to women in her podcast but she knows she has a strong following of male listeners. Her podcast gives men a window into women’s reasoning, emotions, and judgement. Scroll through her library and I guarantee you will find a episode to improve your marriage.
ak loves sk
5 out of 5 stars
Fabulous love to listen
I have gone through and listened to 10 or more episodes a week so I could hear them all. I am grateful for your wisdom. I no longer feel guilty about having some fun in my sex life and being a little daring. Been married 32 years and I finally enjoy everything with my husband without any guilt. Just enjoy!!!
Mr. Martin6th
5 out of 5 stars
Excellent and respectful
I found this podcast last weekend and have listened to just about every episode. I have listened to nearly every episode since I travel for work. I am a man, so it is not geared towards me, but I have learned so much about myself and especially my wife. I hope to be able to create a safe space for her to have these conversations as we don’t have that yet.
Sandune83
5 out of 5 stars
Need QUALITY help? HERE it is!
This is not pop-psychology. This is good, sound, healthy therapeutic help. Even if you are not religious, this podcast is for you! The principles taught here are researched-based and will give you the tools to help yourself! Cannot recommend enough!
spendlovebakes
5 out of 5 stars
Straight to the point
I just found this podcast today and have listened to 8 that the titles stuck out to me. I can’t wait to hear them all. I am so glad to find podcast like this that take on hard subjects and bring love and understanding to misconceptions and culture in our beliefs.
idamomof5
5 out of 5 stars
Learning who I am
I am so glad I found this podcast. I feel like so much of who I am and my identity as a woman was wrapped up in this culture of who I’ve been told I should be and the things I should care about and think are important—What’s right and what is good. I have become more aware of what I want and who I am as a woman and as a sexual partner. And that it’s ok to figure out that part of my life and myself. Thank you Amanda for helping me discover that part of myself and understand how important pleasure is in a marriage and for myself.
AmySuzeA
5 out of 5 stars
Life changing!
I’m so happy my friend recommended this podcast to me. I didn’t realize that so much of my behavior was subconscious “good girl” behavior, that women are sexual, and that sexual pleasure was intended for us as part of our creation. I’m learning so much and it’s really allowing me to open up to my husband and have really good conversations. We’re discovering each other again! Sad I wasted so many years but it’s never too late!
saveetie
5 out of 5 stars
Glad to find
My sister told me about Amanda’s podcast because she had purchased the engagement course for her son and daughter in law. They highly recommend it and I have almost listened to them all now when I go walking. Some I just nod my head and say I wish I had know this 25 years ago
laurelisa88
5 out of 5 stars
So helpful
I have been listening to Amanda’s podcast for a little while. I love how she approaches so many different aspects of healthy sexuality. Her advice and knowledge has helped me so much in all aspects of my life.
krisshum
5 out of 5 stars
So much good!
I found Amanda’s podcast 2 weeks ago and am halfway through all of them. I have found so much good information to help strengthen my marriage and have recommended it to so many friends already. I love sending episodes to my husband that I find especially informative and we have had so many good conversations. I told him today this is one podcast I can listen to over and over that will not get old and boring to me. 10/10!!
AprilDMJ
5 out of 5 stars
Amanda is the real deal!
I have listened to most of Amanda’s podcasts more than once! AND I had a 30 minute FREE consultation with her last week in reference to coaching (I signed up on her website). She is genuine, intelligent, and knows her stuff! I highly recommend her podcasts and coaching services! Thank you Amanda for all that you do to encourage true intimacy and better marriages! ❤️
madjen2015
5 out of 5 stars
MIND-BLOWING good!
Amanda’s podcasts have completely changed me and my husband individually and our marriage together. There is such good content in every episode! I love the way she discusses sex and intimacy in a matter of fact way, but it isn’t vulgar or raunchy. I appreciate her bold stance on topics but she encourages seeking for answers that are right for each couple. 1/0/10 recommend whether you’re engaged, newlywed, been married for 50 years or somewhere in between. With kids, without kids, this podcast is for anyone who is looking to improve themselves and their sexual relationship. I love Amanda and her insights!
GlammaBaker
5 out of 5 stars
Blown away
Amanda ... I found podcast today and I have listened for the last 5 hours. You are definitely #1 on my list
dcbishop
5 out of 5 stars
Living and loving my husband
Thank you for your blunt, raw and provocative podcasts! I’ve always enjoyed sex with my husband, but the different episodes and topics opened my mind and body to exploring so much more. I’m finally opening up, relaxing, understanding my hang ups, understanding how my husband thinks/works and truly living and loving my husband even more
Fateo
5 out of 5 stars
Enjoyed together
I first started listening by myself (male). I found it to be helpful and knew my wife would too. Rather than listening and suggesting an episode here and there, we now listen together. We often pause it to discuss, compliment, apologize, or recollect. We enjoy your insight and look forward to spending the time together listening and talking.
RaJeTu
5 out of 5 stars
WOW! WOW!! WOW!!!
I wouldn’t say I struggle with sex in my marriage but wanted to be more knowledgeable. WOW! I have learned so much after binge listening to several episodes while doing chores. I want to share this podcast with the world! It could be life changing to so many! Thank you, Amanda for sharing your knowledge with the world!
jetsailplane
5 out of 5 stars
She is exactly what the Christian community needs.
My daughter just completed the marriage course and what a relief I don’t have to teach something I am so unqualified teach. Amanda is true educator with with clear fun information that will be a huge impact on the community. I feel bad she was not around 25 years ago when I was just starting to figure things out.
5Suth
5 out of 5 stars
I’M in charge of my sex life
The things Amanda teaches have been so life changing! I always thought our sex life was fine but WOW. It’s amazing what just a few mindset tweaks can do! I used to think it was my husband’s job to make sure I had a good time in bed. But how much more empowering and fun and pleasurable it is now that I took control.
MrsHan89
5 out of 5 stars
Opening the conversation
Thank you for opening up conversations about things like sex for Christian women!! I appreciate your candidness and focus on biblical teaching when it comes to this topic. I love listening to your podcast!
justdoingthebestican
5 out of 5 stars
Obsessed
This is my new favorite podcast! I love how Amanda talks about anything and everything and I appreciate her candor. She’s helped me to normalize sexual things that I used to think were “dirty” or taboo, which has really helped my sex life and my self image. I feel like she is just what every Christian women needs!
Hulia15440
5 out of 5 stars
Life Changing
I got engaged at the beginning of March and my dad recommended Amanda’s podcast and engaged couples course to me. Not only did it help me feel confident in myself and my sexuality, but it has completely reformed my way of thinking about sex. I went from being terrified and self conscious, to excited and ready to start this journey with my fiancé when we get married in August. We both listen to the podcast and have had open and honest conversations about our expectations once we are married. Thank you Amanda! You have changed my life.
milkncookie13
5 out of 5 stars
Highly recommend!!
For the first 18 years of my marriage, sex was the biggest (really, the ONLY) source of contention for us. I found Amanda's podcast after I had some huge breakthroughs about my sexuality. I relate to so much of what she says and I feel like she really gets me! I love listening to her new episodes every week as well as going back and listening to her past ones. It has helped me along my journey to an amazing, intimate relationship with my husband. Thank you, Amanda!
samigirl99
5 out of 5 stars
An incredibly helpful podcast for everyone with no judgements!
I absolutely love this podcast. I stumbled upon it on accident and started listening a couple weeks before I got married. I definitely did not have a lot of knowledge about sexual intercourse and so this podcast was really enlightening. Now three months into marriage, my husband and I listen to it together and we use a lot of Amanda’s tips in our communication with each other, as well as intimacy. We love it!
AnHonestHusband
5 out of 5 stars
Unexpectedly Insightful
I started cautiously listening as a husband, wondering if there was anything I could do to be better for my wife in our marriage and sex life, but not wanting to cross any kind of lines. Once I got more into it, I began to learn a lot about myself and my beliefs. My life has changed and I understand so much more about myself and my wife. I truly appreciate the change that has already occurred after only a week of listening and am eager for what’s to come.
Ed Corto
5 out of 5 stars
Great info for husbands
I e been listening to this podcast for quite sometime and even though it is focused on women there is so much for a husband to learn about their wife. Great honest approach to common issues. Ed C.
DudeInUtah
5 out of 5 stars
Have learned a lot
I have listened to most episodes to try and help learn more about my wife of 30+ years. I unexpectedly ended up leaning a lot about myself. I listened to episode 77 about rejection over and over and just sobbed and learned to adjust my expectations and my feelings and it has helped to focus on all the good things in our marriage and not obsess about sex. By doing that, our sec life has improved as a byproduct. Thank you for your insights.
youreintruffle!
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing one of a kind resource!
Wow thank you for all these amazing episode! There are so many things I didn’t even realize but I am so glad you are getting the word out there to help us LDS women and our sex life! Her resources are soWell thought out and applicable!
schristensen45
5 out of 5 stars
Phenomenal for mindset and marriage
Since my husband and I have both been listening to Amanda Louder we have not only understood each other better but also have actually FELT understood by each other. Our ability to feel connection has grown stronger and although we are having the craziest and busiest year of our life we are having more and better sex than ever. I never thought that we needed help in this area but this podcast has been a game changer and has been phenomenal for our mindset and marriage.
Faithypookhfnjf
5 out of 5 stars
Listen to This Podcast for Your Date Night!!
I just discovered this channel a few weeks ago but now I can’t shut up about to my husband! He loves listening to them too and even just talking about this podcast has really strengthened our emotional and sexual relationship. We sometimes listen to the podcasts as a date night while we bake or something! I would recommend this podcast for any married couple, whether you feel like your sex life is great or struggling. Thanks Amanda for the great advice every Friday💜💜
Katmw
5 out of 5 stars
So enlightening
I wish I had Amanda in my life 18 years ago when I was preparing for marriage as a young Latter Day Saint. Her approach, wisdom and expertise has broadened the intimacy my husband and I share with deeper understanding and love since we started listening to this podcast (just a few months back). She speaks truth without hesitation and is bold with her advice, and so personable. I love how concise and precise she is. Amanda is easy to listen to individually or as a couple, plus the tricks, tips and truths she presents are priceless! Thank you so much, Amanda!
TaylorT99
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing podcast for newly married couples!
There isn’t much prep for sex life when you are a member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saint and as a newly wed, this podcast has helped me so much! Myself, like many others, have binged listened to so many episodes in such a short amount of time! This podcast has the best information and Amanda is so wonderful at what she does! Thanks for such awesome podcasts! Everyone needs to listen!❤️
Greensean8
5 out of 5 stars
Game changer!!
I am seriously so grateful I was introduced to this podcast! And so is my husband 😂👍🏻 Amanda has helped me so much!! I had “good girl syndrome” for sure!! I am a member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I put boundaries on myself and my sexuality. It wasn’t my religion doing it, it was myself. Through this podcast I learned that boundaries don’t need to be built. I am married and my relationship with my husband and a happy, loving marriage is my “higher desire”❤️ I love that Amanda is a safe place for me to learn. And all of her resources are safe. I even have my husband listening. So he can understand me and help me in this journey. Our relationship has been stronger since listening to this podcast!! I absolutely love it and binge listened to every one of her podcast in 2 weeks! Thanks so much Ananda!!!
Happyhusband8
5 out of 5 stars
Whirlwind and great advice
My wife started listening to this podcast about a month ago and it has been a whirlwind adventure ever since. Oh how I wish we would have had this when we got married 21 years ago. It has changed our marriage. But more importantly then that I am the dad to 4 teenage daughters and as much as I have no interest in thinking about their future sex life or them getting married they will all be getting some coaching from you before they get married. Your podcast has help our relationship and marriage grow more than you can imagine and will be passed to our girls to bless their future marriages.
Latter Day Saint Woman 96
5 out of 5 stars
This podcast changes hearts and lives
Wow! This podcast is incredible! A friend of mine introduced this to me a while back and I have been talking about it to everyone non-stop for weeks! I’ve been married for just under two years and, I’ll be honest, my husband and I have considered divorce on more than one occasion. Since I’ve started listening to this podcast I feel like a light has come on that traditional therapy hasn’t really been able to do. I feel like Heavenly Father was saying, “oh you’re struggling? Here, listen to Amanda. She will help you.” I’ve been so close to happy tears while listening to these episodes. Amanda’s words fill me with hope, empowerment, and peace. My husband and I aren’t out of the woods yet, but I feel like I’m finally able to see what I’m doing wrong in my relationship and how to fix it and show up as my best self every single day in hopes of repairing my marriage. Thank you thank you Amanda! You are truly heaven sent!
manzeers
5 out of 5 stars
Empowered and excited!
Hey Amanda, My husband and I love your podcast!! We feel like it has really helped us in our marriage and journey together. We appreciate the maturity and candid approach to the topics that you tackle. Your take has been refreshing and even liberating at times. We both grew up in the church, served missions, sealed in the temple, etc. But, like so many others, our views on sex in marriage were fairly limited to things we thought we could or couldn't do, which led to anxieties. But, after listening to your podcast, we feel more empowered and inspired together to make our sex life what we want it to be, and not feel anxious or ashamed about any of it. Thank you for all you do!!
HeatherWM987
5 out of 5 stars
🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
I love this podcast! As an LDS woman in her 40’s, sexual information and education over the last year has led my husband and I to the best sex of our lives! Wish I would’ve known all this in our 20’s. Oh well! O’s are almost a daily thing around here now so we are making up for lost time!
Husker-Joe75598
5 out of 5 stars
Helped me open up so much!
As a newlywed, this podcast has helped me open up to the thought of sexuality and being ok with being sexual as a Christian! I’ve used many of these tips over the last year and my husband and I’s relationship in the bedroom is growing stronger everyday!
MAArgz2
5 out of 5 stars
Breaking stigmas about sex!
A friend recommended this podcast to me a few weeks before my wedding because I was having anxiety attacks because of the stigmas that surround sex (that it is a sin, that it hurts, etc). The information that Amanda provides is not only helpful but it is presented in such a professional way. I love recommending episodes to my husband and having conversations about them!
xnfmly
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing
I am so glad to have found this podcast. The information is helping me understand myself and experience sexuality in a new way. It is an important show to subscribe to for every married woman and man that’s wants to know more about women.
AshleyW32
5 out of 5 stars
Impactful and Empowering
I will be forever grateful that I found this podcast! I did not have any conversations about intimacy or my body growing up which led me to being such a young, scared, and clueless bride/wife. This podcast has answered all of my questions that have gone unasked and unanswered for a couple of years now. I feel so empowered now that my husband and I have such a stronger overall foundation as a couple early on in our marriage! Thank you so much, Amanda!
kaymom2017
5 out of 5 stars
Faith-based yet Straightforward
I really appreciate Amanda’s open, tasteful, straight-forward, faith-based insights on sexuality and marriage. It can be hard to find! Thank you so much!!!
HHBenji
5 out of 5 stars
Thank you!!
Thanks Amanda for these great episodes! You’ve taught me so much about my body that I never knew!
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5 out of 5 stars
Great information in an easy to listen to format
This podcast has been really life changing for me. I love the way Amanda talks about sex and everything related in a casual, non awkward way, like I'm listening to a girlfriend. The epidsodes are short enough to get the info, but not be overwhelmed with a long time commitment. I have even shared them with my hubs and it's lead to great conversations and more openness. Love it.
EmCan22
5 out of 5 stars
Life changing if you’re ready!
I’ve binged over a dozen episodes in the last week or so, but the best was sharing an episode with my husband of +20 years and the conversations and actions we’ve taken as a result of listening and talking. Amanda shares information and gentle encouragement for Christian couples to reconsider their mindsets and goals for intimacy even if only one partner is ready for change. Highly recommended!!
kimberlyjocarlson
5 out of 5 stars
Quick Episodes, Great Content
Amanda says it LOUDER and prouder. She introduces great topics through her expertise and experiences she has helped clients with. The more we can have conversations like these the better we can love each other! Anything from fantasy to orgasms to pelvic floor PT (who knew, right?!). I learn more in 20 minutes of this podcast than anywhere else on the internet! AND you know the episodes will align with your morals and marriage while it respectfully address these topics.
aubzeyg
5 out of 5 stars
Great resource!!
Amanda is amazing. She provides a safe and relatable resource for us girls to get our questions and concerns addressed without the risk of googling them and stumbling upon all the inappropriate content on the internet. She is real and raw and isn’t afraid to talk about ANYTHING. Even if you feel like you don’t need this type of resource, YOU DO! I promise you will find things you can relate to in her episodes. I recommend to EVERY married woman! She is a life changer!!
tallmom11
5 out of 5 stars
Fabulous podcast
Amanda has such an honest, open and clear way of explaining things that even the shyest LDS good girl listener will be able to learn something that can help them in their relationship. I love that the episodes are quick to listen to but full of information and advice. Intimacy is so important, and the way we think about it makes such a huge difference. I’m so glad there are people like Amanda who can teach us how to enhance this part of us, no matter where we are starting from.
Easy Listen for LDS Sex Topics
5 out of 5 stars
Love it!
I stumbled on Live from Love after a comment from one of my Facebook groups. I'm loving it so far. Amanda is easy to listen to and has relevant content in each episode. She broaches what is often seen as a taboo subject and makes it easy to talk about. Would definitely reccomend!
witkel
5 out of 5 stars
The Best Podcast For Marriage!
I have loved listening to all of Amanda‘s episodes. She is so open and honest and presents her material in a very easy way to understand and incorporate. There have been many things that she has brought up in her podcasts that I haven’t even realized have been issues that I’ve had with myself and in my marriage. The first podcast episode I had my husband listen to was Husbands, What Your Wives Wish You Knew. We laughed but then it got him curious about other episodes. I love listening and sharing with him. We sometimes listen to episodes together and it has brought us closer. I love her more recent episodes and her focus on sex as it isn’t talked about much in our culture of the Church of Jesus Christ. However, I love the earlier episodes where she talks about other aspects of marriage. It is all amazing! Thank you Amanda!
KellyElli1
5 out of 5 stars
Blessed Encounters!
I’m loving your podcast Amanda! I love your honesty and your encouragement! Thank you for your openness and willingness to speak on topics that are REALLY important! God cares about our marriage and He made sex important to marriage! Totally sharing this with all my friends!
Canonfish
5 out of 5 stars
Deepens Connection in Marriage
This is a WONDERFUL podcast for Christian women and men to learn how to connect/reconnect sexually and intimately with their spouse, and raise their relationship to a higher plane. I was hesitant at first because we just don’t talk about sex in our religious world, but it has changed my marriage immensely. It is extremely respectful, and teaches how to deepen that connection with your spouse through communication and variety in sex. Definitely worth not only listening to, but following what she teaches us. Thanks, Amanda!
lds4kids
5 out of 5 stars
SO SO NEEDED!!
I have thought for a long time how much something like Amanda’s podcast is needed in the LDS Faith. Amanda is willing to talk about sex in a way that is open and forthright and helps the listener to be able to more fully explore their sexual relationship and their own sexuality. I believe God created all of us to be sexual beings and it’s OK to explore and enjoy that amazing part of our bodies. THANK YOU Amanda for your work!
kellykaren18
5 out of 5 stars
Authentic & open
I love that this is a place LDS women can learn about sex. That Amanda talks so openly and creates a wholesome environment where we learn how to love our spouse and ourselves and God fully 😊
4755 tay
5 out of 5 stars
Love it!
Idk how I stumbled upon Amanda but I’m so glad I did! It’s so nice to know that I stand with so many other women with our struggles with how we go about sex with our spouses. Listening to her I have adopted a few of her practices already and I really am feeling more confident and ready to dive into a more intimate relationship with my husband. I’m not LDS I grew up in the Assemblies of God church. You don’t have to be LDS! It’s all so relatable!
cakebakerextrodinair
5 out of 5 stars
So helpful
I love this podcast. It brings to light many false culture things we’ve been fed about sex. I have been struggling for years and this podcast was an answer to my prayers. Keep making great content! It’s changing my life.
Luvmath
5 out of 5 stars
Interesting and informative
I found Amanda’s podcast and enjoy listening and learning. Her voice is pleasant to listen to and she has a good teaching personality. She is direct and doesn’t waste a lot of time with non essential talk. Straight and to the point.
meggsandtoast1
5 out of 5 stars
Amanda is kind and personable
I’ve really enjoyed Amanda’s podcasts. She really knows what she’s talking about and she approaches it in a way that you can relate to and you feel comfortable. I also like that she is changing the narrative around topics in our culture that have created negative conditioning in lives of young women especially. Her thoughts have helped open my mind to perspectives I have never considered before. She’s spread positivity on ideas that have always brought me anxiety and fear. She wants everyone to choose to be happy and I love it! Thank you Amanda!!
Nataleesss
5 out of 5 stars
Short and empowering
I am enjoying my journey of living with love, it has changed the way I do everything. I’m trying to let this advice change me, so I can be a better mom, friend and partner. After listening to my first episode (106) I decided to start at the beginning, now I’m on episode 10 and loving what I’m learning!
wewillriseup
5 out of 5 stars
Love it!
I have listened to Amanda’s podcast on and off for a few months, and I have to say how amazing it is! It has helped me in ways I didn’t even know I needed help in. She is real and raw and even though it might be uncomfortable for us to talk about, Amanda has a way of making it not so uncomfortable.
ssnymeyer
5 out of 5 stars
Just listen!
I stumbled across Amanda’s podcast on a Facebook page, and thought, “a sex life coach? Really?” Being raised lds it is so taboo to talk about! Amanda makes it so easy to listen to and learn about. I’ve been married for five years and we have already learned and been able to Improve our intimacy so much within the last couple of weeks. My husband even enjoys learning from Amanda. Just listen to it! :)
pablo19782001
5 out of 5 stars
Love this podcast!
I found Amanda’s podcast a few weeks ago and listen to several episodes a week. I love what she has to say. I love how open she is and makes me feel like I am normal, when I haven’t felt that way in the past. Thank you Amanda!
AJ VDub
5 out of 5 stars
Helpful and relevant
I love what I’ve learned so far on Amanda’s podcast. She really knows her stuff and you can tell that she has such a passion for helping couples with their marriage and intimacy issues.
Imfreeagle
5 out of 5 stars
A game changer
Amanda is great at helping you see the things that are really going on in your relationship. Highly recommend you take the time to listen if your ready to move to the next level and understand the truth.
Facon62Travis
5 out of 5 stars
I just binged every episode
I found Amanda’s podcast from another podcast where Amanda was the guest. I come from a very conservative upbringing and this is something that has been missing from my marriage for the past 20+ years. I just wanted to say thank you for being so open and finding the right ways to share this subject. I’m just in the beginning of this journey and I’m excited to see where it takes me
SALivingston
5 out of 5 stars
Great insights, relatable guide
Thanks Amanda for sharing your wisdom each week on your podcast. You clearly care and want to help make marriages stronger.
HKS5
5 out of 5 stars
Great bite-sized nuggets
These episodes are just the right length and the content is so relevant to both husbands and wives. Thank you!
Nikole Ripp
5 out of 5 stars
Can listen to the entire podcast without getting bored!
I have been married for a year and I have learned a lot about sex and intimacy! I grew up thinking that sex was a bad thing and then all of a sudden I was supposed to be a sexual being! These podcasts interest me and I learn so much! I love that the podcasts keep my attention the entire time.
mmomm24
5 out of 5 stars
Awesome!
My husband and I both love this podcast. It has created some great conversations and helped us in so many ways!
JJCampby
5 out of 5 stars
Game Changer!
Amanda’s podcast has really helped my wife and I change up our game. After nearly 20 yrs of marriage we needed a little help. I discovered Live for love after many other similar podcasts. There was something different about this podcast. I sent one episode to my wife and she felt like Amanda was speaking directly to her, as did I. We have been listening for about 7 months now. We refer back to older episodes and we can’t wait for the new ones. We like to listen to them on our own and then we discuss them together. It has been a huge blessing to our lives, we are closer now than we have even been before and it gets even better each day. I have recommended this podcast to many of my friends and would recommend it to any married couple. I especially love how Amanda has bridged the gap between the church and the bedroom. I have had so many of the same thoughts as Amanda, so it was a breathe of fresh air to hear her share what I feel were my very own thoughts. Keep up the great work Amanda, I believe you are helping to save more marriages than you realize!!
Darbsyaya
5 out of 5 stars
We can talk about this
I love how easy Amanda has helped to make this topic to discuss in my relationship. She really has helped me to understand something I already knew. That my relationship is between me, my husband and God. Thank you for your perspective. Keep it up!
Brittany0324
5 out of 5 stars
Great podcast
I love Amanda’s down time earth perspective - her advice is so straight forward and helpful - makes it so easy! . Great podcast. Definitely give it a listen.
Angela.Buss
4 out of 5 stars
Big Impacts
I love the short episodes and clear topics. Each episode is just enough to make a small change, something that I can manage to change until I look back and it’s been a big change!
RalphieCat3
5 out of 5 stars
Interesting and informative
I started listening to Amanda’s Podcasts about 6 months ago. I found them to be informative and positive, answering some questions that I had. I went back and listened to just about all of the other podcasts previously aired. I listen to them weekly now, some don’t really apply, but I still listen just to be informed. Some of her podcasts have really helped me think about myself and my husband in a differently than I had before. Before I may have thought I was too tired or not interested in having sex on any given night, but now I realize that the mood does not have to be perfect to have sex and I’m glad that I did. All in all this is a great podcast and I’m glad I found her. I also like that she can and will help you personally as well if you ask for a free coaching session.
Katie472"
5 out of 5 stars
Such a Valuable Resource!
I am so grateful for this podcast! I appreciate the specific topics. It has helped me grow as a person and a wife. Thank you!
Amyloann
5 out of 5 stars
To the Point and Helpful!
Amanda’s podcast is informative & to the point while talking about a sensitive and sacred subject. Her podcasts have helped me gain insight on my intimate relationship with my husband and more importantly, who I want to be in our relationship-in the bedroom & out.
Tuffluckdriller
5 out of 5 stars
Amazingly helpful!
Amanda shares such a down to earth perspective that helps me and my wife. I enjoy her podcasts each week, and I hope to continue to learn from her.
mama274eva
5 out of 5 stars
Life Changing Perspective
I have been listening to this podcast for a few months now and WOW. I first listened to the most recent episodes about sexuality and my mind was blown, especially as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I definitely have good girl syndrome and am working hard to move past that. I have also been having some struggles in my marriage. And listening to her teach about what marriage should be…love…and also working through CTF has changed my life and helped me stabilize my self and my marriage. Thank you, Amanda, for giving so much hope and love.
Cjclowers
5 out of 5 stars
Love Amanda’s podcast!
I have grown so much by listening to this podcast. Amanda is very knowledgeable and knows how to explain and speak in a way that is very relatable. I’m 58 years young and have been married for 40 years. I’m grateful to have the opportunity to have this podcast as a tool on my forever learning journey.
torgie25
5 out of 5 stars
Knowledge is light and light is power.
All the things that Amanda talks about are very helpful for both men and women. She is very good at helping to take away the shame and fear of learning about our sexuality and how it relates to God. The podcasts are so very helpful.
RachElizabethB
5 out of 5 stars
Knowledge is power!
Amanda does an incredible job addressing subjects that are so important but don’t get the attention they need. Men and women alike can learn so much from her episodes. I know I have! Thanks for all you do Amanda!
Sara6214
5 out of 5 stars
Love this podcast!
I love this podcast and the very real and taboo topics. I love that her podcasts are completely relatable to how I was feeling for so long and help me to see how I can change my frame of mind on sexuality. Thank you, thank you for this!
Pikkusiili
5 out of 5 stars
Great information to help men and women in relationships
Although Amanda’s primary audience is women, she presents a lot of good information for men as well. She does a great job of giving small doses of information that aren’t overwhelming.
cmdkt
5 out of 5 stars
So Real & Straightforward
I found this podcast a few months ago & have loved listening! It’s validated SO many struggles & concerns I’ve had in my own life, which is super powerful in & of itself. But Amanda also does a great job at giving tangible advice to address concerns & issues. I love how straightforward she is- it eliminates so many taboo stigma’s we have about sex and sexuality, especially being raised in an LDS culture. Thank you Amanda for your work!
wifetob
5 out of 5 stars
Leads to Great Conversations!
I love this Podcast! I’m lucky that my sexual relationship with my husband is a fantastic part of our marriage, but I still love listening to these. We’ve listened to several of these together and it has served as a great springboard for us to talk about our marriage and sex and making sure we are meeting each other’s needs.
kristinajanice
5 out of 5 stars
5 Stars
Such relevant content! It’s good to know I am not alone having less of a sex drive than my husband. I eagerly wait for each Friday when a new podcast comes out!
Nelliem0823
5 out of 5 stars
So great!
These podcasts are short, sweet and to the point. The subjects are great and I have learned so much from Amanda’s podcasts. I would recommend it to everyone!
hailimm
5 out of 5 stars
This podcast is all the things we don't talk about and I love it!
I really appreciate the openness of Amanda and her knowledge of sex, marriage, and mindset in general. She really helps me feel not alone in the struggles that I have in my marriage and also the amount of postivity and hope she gives when it comes to sex and marriage! She breaks things down into topics so specific...it's so so helpful! Thank you AMANDA!!
AllisonLady
5 out of 5 stars
Thoughtful and intentional
I just recently found Amanda Louder and have been listening to her with every free minute when I’m not chasing my kids. She has been so helpful and I love how she isn’t making me feel like a failure. She is making me feel normal and that I can have more with every aspect of my relationship. Thank you!!!
browneyegirl2020
5 out of 5 stars
Amazing podcast
Just want to thank you for the wonderful and useful information you share in all the podcasts. I truly enjoy they way you explain yourself. It has been really helpful listening to all the topics and writing downs all the steps you recommend.
Gildz6o
5 out of 5 stars
Love it!
I love listening to this podcast! Great advice, counsel, array of topics, useful information for intimacy in marriage—love it! So interesting to listen to!! I love Amanda!
Brittni Schroedef
5 out of 5 stars
Love this Podcast!
I love listening to Amanda’s thoughts on sex and intimacy. She offers so much wisdom and knowledge about mindset. Highly recommend this podcast.
BBcookie499
5 out of 5 stars
Husband loves too!!
I had my husband listen to an episode and afterwords all he said was: “SPOT ON!” I couldn’t agree more, Amanda is spot on and brings up subjects that I have always struggled with during my almost 10 years of marriage. Totally recommend!!!
colleen.bean2009
5 out of 5 stars
Great podcast
Great advice for married or non-married couples. Lots of personal growth messages as well. Thanks!
thekelsrae
5 out of 5 stars
Talks about the hard questions.
Amanda has a direct approach to addressing the issues she sees in the people she works with. Her problem-solving techniques really make me think, and she cuts to the heart of what I could be thinking and feeling. I have often found myself with an initial reaction that she is being rather harsh when she talks about emotions and needs, but thinking about what she says has helped me in my marriage already and I've only been listening for a few weeks. I'm excited to listen more!
sarita.payne
5 out of 5 stars
Great advice every week!
I love Amanda’s podcast! She has so much wisdom and advice that is so applicable—plus, she’s hilarious. I’ve found myself laughing out loud. Give her a listen if you want to uplevel your sex life!
Kaydeekinsxo
5 out of 5 stars
Great advice! I have learned so much!
I just happened upon this podcast and I’m so glad I did!! This is everything I have been searching for and more.. as a married Latter Day Saint there are so many cultural wrongs that we have been taught around sex, I have struggled for years trying to figure out how I can be a faithful LDS member of the church AND be a sexual being.. I have pushed that side of myself away for so long that I’ve lost touch with it completely! I feel like this podcast has helped me reconnect with that part of myself and really take a look at what’s going on in my head to keep me from having the sex life I want. Thanks Amanda for your hard work on this podcast! I love everything you’re doing!
momof3boys123
5 out of 5 stars
A podcaster with intention and purpose
Amanda puts so much thought, energy, prayer, and time into her podcasts and it shows. Her podcasts are full of tips, suggestions, advice, and LOVE for her listeners. She is wise, experienced, grateful, and deliberate. She walks the talk and inspires others to do the same, to invest in themselves and to become the best version of who they are meant to be. Love this podcast!!!!
lauren nicole morris
5 out of 5 stars
Life changing podcast!
I had a friend share with me Amanda’s podcast months ago and look forward to hearing her new episodes every Friday! The podcasts have changed my sexy life and relationship with my husband completely! We have tried counseling before but these podcasts have made the biggest impact in my life.
kgirls5
5 out of 5 stars
A must listen!
Love this podcast! Amanda is the perfect host to discuss all things relationships and marriage. After listening to this podcast you will feel inspired to take action and improve your relationship with yourself and others.
conniecoaching
5 out of 5 stars
Preach it Sista!!!
Great job giving me specific bullet points to work on!!! Thank you
dtayloraz
5 out of 5 stars
Succinct and uncovers the truth
I love that Amanda keeps her episodes short and drives home the jury pound of the particular topic. I’ve learned that often my perspective on how a relationship is going isn’t necessarily the truth. The truth is whatever I spin it to be. I’m choosing more positivity as my truth and debunking my habitual negative thoughts.
AudraJo7
5 out of 5 stars
Making Changes
Amanda’s perspective has helped me to make some big changes in how I approach a couple relationships that have been bothering me. Love her no fuss, practical approach.
Still learning at 57!
5 out of 5 stars
Inspirational podcasts
I found out about you by listening to Jody Moore when she had the life coach, The Virtual armchair guy, whom I listened to, who then had you on as a guest. I just want to tell you that I feel the spirit and the love you are coming from. I feel like when you have a podcast it is easy to listen to and to relate to. I have told my two daughters who are age 27 and 33, a couple of my friends and will continue to spread the word of what an awesome life coach you are! You often hear people say that you need to find a coach, therapist or counselor who fits you. I feel like I have found a fit in you! Please keep sharing your experiences with us. Thank you for helping me and I’m sure many others learn the tricks of being our best selves!
AnniePorter
4 out of 5 stars
A great podcast on marriage
Thanks! I’ll forward to my weekly marriage coaching. She has great ideas and applications and is helping me to change my thoughts.
BeatlesWife
5 out of 5 stars
Favorite Podcast!
This podcast has become my favorite podcast to listen up every week! It’s my go to podcast when I need an extra boost of self help and self love. Amanda makes each episode so relatable. Thank you Amanda for all you do!!
Scallen
5 out of 5 stars
Love listening.
I love listening to Amanda’s podcast. Love her insight and perspective and I love how she’s helping me to control my thoughts and my feelings. Love love this podcast.
HookedonDancing360
5 out of 5 stars
Awesome podcast
I have benefited a lot so far from what she has shared. I’m eternally grateful to the stranger who recommended her podcast and I hope she keeps it up! My favorites have been her podcasts on desire, managing emotions, happiness, etc. those were profound for me!
beckysqui
5 out of 5 stars
Easy listen, important topics!
Amanda tackles all the important topics in strengthening yourself and your family. She gets right to the point-no fluff found here. Thanks for talking about this Amanda!
HeatherHerb
5 out of 5 stars
Highly Recommend
I love this podcast. Amanda helps me to understand my feelings and encourages action towards living a life full of love.
RosieTyler-Freer
5 out of 5 stars
Great advice for a great marriage
Amanda give practical advice for how to make marriage work. I love her approach to managing your thinking, which is frankly the key to everything in life, not just a good marriage. Love her examples and personal touch. If you want to have the best marriage possible, I recommend listening to this podcast!
wifeto1mamato3
5 out of 5 stars
Highly Recommend!
Amanda has a way of phrasing just what I need to hear regarding my marriage, relationships, & personal goals! I have binge listened to every one of her podcasts & I love her perspective/insight! I also love the length! (Long enough to talk about the topic But short enough to get to the point!) Which I love!
Darla Trendler
5 out of 5 stars
Easy to listen to with great advice
I love how Amanda gives practical and doable advice to better yourself. Her episode on confidence is a must listen. The audio on this podcast is great and Amanda has a voice that is easy to listen to.
PYM1972
5 out of 5 stars
Excellent podcast!!
I love this podcast!! Amanda explains everything in such a clear way that it makes perfect sense! The concept to Live from Love rings so true to me! I look forward to more great podcasts from Amanda. Don’t miss out on a single episode!
sbnmmama
5 out of 5 stars
Great tips!
Such wonderful advice for your daily life! Amanda has a unique way of using her life experiences to help those around her. I have found many great tips within her podcasts that I’m excited to implement.
tiffkelly31
5 out of 5 stars
Caring and Genuine
Amanda has coached me through one of the most difficult times of my life. I can say without a doubt that her love and perspective helped me get through. I really appreciate her practical yet no nonsense approach. You won’t regret working with her!
Player12345667
5 out of 5 stars
Love it!
Amanda is very easy to listen to. She has been through many experiences that has given her the knowledge she has. The most organized person I know! So excited for this series, even though I’m not contemplating divorce. Great advice to work on my marriage in ways I often forget to do.
ecualuv
5 out of 5 stars
Great guidance
Love this podcast and what advice and guidance it gives me. It allows me to take a deeper look at what I can do to better myself and how that can help me build healthy relationships with myself, God and those I love!
Podcast information
- Amount of episodes
- 271
- Subscribers
- 31
- Verified
- Yes
- Website
- Explicit content
- No
- Episode type
- episodic
- Podcast link
- https://podvine.com/link/..
- Last upload date
- June 2, 2023
- Last fetch date
- June 3, 2023 6:37 PM
- Upload range
- WEEKLY
- Author
- Amanda Louder
- Copyright
- © 2023 Amanda Louder Coaching
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- Episode 267 - Sexual Overfunctioning and UnderfunctioningLet me ask you a question. Are you overfunctioning or underfunctioning in your sexual relationship with your spouse? Taking a look at yourself and honestly answering this question can help you have a better relationship. We often get into patterns and dynamics that seem helpful but end up causing more problems in the end. So let’s define what it is and what we can do about it.0 comments0
- Episode 266 - The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships - Pt. 2This is part two of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. This week we’re talking more about our young adults and how they are really struggling in dating and moving into relationships and into sexual relationships. Whether you're a young adult, either single and dating or newly married or you have young adults, even if you have been married a long time, I think you're going to find some really good, valuable insights into why things are the way they are for you in this episode. If you didn’t hear part one, I would recommend listening to that one first here. Julie Balkman, founder of the 100 Interviews Project and expert panelist for the LDS dating app Mutual, is a dating expert and certified life coach who helps young adults get out of the dating game and into a real relationship that lasts. The dating game often continues into engagement and marriage, so she also works with newly married couples, helping them build a relationship based on real love and intimacy. With eight years experience working with hundreds of young adults (single and married), she has seen firsthand the desire and need for clear answers, actionable steps, and real results. You can find her at juliebalkmancoaching.com and @lifecoach.julie on Instagram.0 comments0
- Sex for Saints May 19 · 32m Episode 265 - The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships - Pt. 1This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot of our young adults are really struggling in dating and moving into relationships and into sexual relationships. Whether you're a young adult, either single and dating or newly married or you have young adults, even if you have been married a long time, I think you're going to find some really good, valuable insights into why things are the way they are for you in this episode. Don’t miss part 2 coming next week. Julie Balkman, founder of the 100 Interviews Project and expert panelist for the LDS dating app Mutual, is a dating expert and certified life coach who helps young adults get out of the dating game and into a real relationship that lasts. The dating game often continues into engagement and marriage, so she also works with newly married couples, helping them build a relationship based on real love and intimacy. With eight years experience working with hundreds of young adults (single and married), she has seen firsthand the desire and need for clear answers, actionable steps, and real results. You can find her at juliebalkmancoaching.com and @lifecoach.julie on Instagram.0 comments0
- Episode 264 - Igniting Passion In Your Sex LifeHave you noticed that the passion in your sex life has disappeared? It’s time to ignite it again, don’t you think? I was recently on Ashlee Sorenson’s podcast called A Bit Better Everyday and I loved our conversation so much that I asked Ashlee if I could share it with you and she graciously said yes. So, join us as we talk about how we ignite that passion again both in our lives and in the bedroom.0 comments0
- Episode 263 - How Do You Define Sex?Our definition of sex can really affect how much sex we’re getting. So, how do you define sex? Is sex just penetration and orgasm? Or are there other activities that you define as sex? This isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer but it’s important to ask yourself how you define it and why. Listen as we discuss what a broad definition of sex can do for your sex life.0 comments0
- Episode 262 - Sleep DivorceHave you heard about sleep divorce? "Sleep divorce" is a situation where couples sleep separately on a regular basis to improve their sleep quality due to issues like snoring, different sleeping schedules, or personal preferences. Studies show that it can help save relationships, but it may also cause problems. Listen to this episode to find out what those problems may be and how to make it work in your relationship.0 comments0
- Episode 261 - Is Jealousy Good or Bad for a Marriage?Have you ever been jealous in your relationship? Around 77% of people report feeling at least an occasional jealousy in their relationships. In this episode, we’re talking about jealousy and how a little jealousy in a relationship can be a good thing, but too much jealousy can damage a relationship. Let’s discuss why you’re feeling jealous and what you can do about it. Sources: Journal of Personal and Social Relationships Study0 comments0
- Episode 260 - The Sexual Conditioning of Christian MenThrough my own experience and coaching women for five years, I have come to know what the sexual conditioning of women is in our Christian faith, and how to help them. But women aren’t the only ones affected by our teachings. Men hear that they are the head of the household and women are there to nurture them, including giving them what they “need”. Men hear that they are to push down their emotions to be manly. Along with so many other damaging things. So in this episode, we’re going to talk about those misconceptions and, more importantly, what you can do about them.0 comments0
- Sex for Saints Apr 7 · 25m Episode 259 - How Body Image Affects Your Partner an Interview with Amber A PriceHow does your body image affect your partner? That's what my guest Amber Price and I are talking about in this episode. Even though body image issues is something you see a lot in women, men have body image issues too. Listen in as we discuss what we do, why we do it and what we can do about it. You can find more information about Amber at: Her website Instagram0 comments0
- Episode 258 - The Top Reasons For Low Desire in WomenIn this episode, we talk about the top 4 reasons for low desire in women that I see in my clients. I break down why women have low desire and what to do about it. So if you want to want sex, but you just don’t, this is the episode for you! I also have a lot of men coming to me to help their wives. Let’s talk about that too. Here are the episodes referenced in this episode: Taking Care of your husband’s “needs” Episode 253 - Consenting to Unwanted Sex Episode 167 - Is Sex a Need? Episode 195 - Need-Based Sex Episode 210 - Blue Balls & Blue Beans Episode 229 - Duty Sex Body Image: Episode 74 - How Body Image Affects Sex Episode 162 - Attraction & Self-Objectification Stress: Episode 226 - The Mental Load That Is Affecting Your Sex Life Episode 101 - Sex Under Stress Episode 190 - Creating the Space for Desire Gender Norms around Initiation Episode 169 - Initiating Ideas and Styles Episode 34 - Cultivating Connection & Desire Episode 86 - Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire Episode 98 - Embracing Your Sexuality Episode 109 - Higher Desires and Lower Desires Episode 217 - Reclaiming Desire & Eros0 comments0
- Episode 257 - How Style Helps Your Confidence in the Bedroom - An Interview with Sheri BrasierIn this episode, I’m talking to Sheri Brasier about how to gain more confidence in the bedroom. Sheri is a life and style coach which means that she empowers women to have great style and in turn gain confidence. In our discussion, we talked about how to improve how you look at yourself in order to improve how you feel about yourself and sex. This really is an interesting discussion on style and how it makes us feel. Listen in and tell me what you think. You can find Sheri on: Instagram Facebook Her website Her podcast: Creating Unshakable Self Confidence You can get a freebie called Style Basics Every Woman Should Have in Her Closet by going to this link.0 comments0
- Episode 256 - How to Add Role-Play Into Your Sexual RepertoireIn this episode, I’m speaking with Katie Runyan of Faithful Fling, a subscription role-playing website. We talk about how to easily add role-play into our marriages. This is such a fun episode! Katie talked about how she created her business because it’s what she was looking for when they first started role-playing. Listen to this episode, and then sign up for a free fling. Katie resides in Kansas City, Missouri with her husband and four children who have all flown the coop! She’s left with an empty house but not an empty marriage yet she spends a lot of time begging them to come home for the weekend! You can find her outside doing a lazy run, visiting local donut shops, taking naps or with her nose in a book. In the Spring of 2022 she finally took the leap and started her own business where she creates role-play dates for you and your spouse to do together, so Katie is the role-play expert! She named her website Faithful Fling because all of her role-play scenarios will be just between you and your spouse, hence the Faithful part, and she named these fun role-play dates “Flings” because she wanted to apply a fun and flirty word for your role-play date night. She loves what she does and can’t wait for the moment when Faithful Fling becomes a common name for date night! Katie is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints who encourages everyone to embrace their God-given sexuality, improve their intimacy and connection with their spouse and learn to have fun in the bedroom! She’s been married for 24 years and they still date each other every week. You can find her: On Instagram On her website Or email her at katie@faithfulfling.com Get your first fling for free!0 comments0
- Episode 255 - Taking Things To The Next Level ||Embracing You! Teaser||Rather than dwelling on the questions your brain is offering to you, answer them. Thoughtfully think about them and answer them. You have the answers already inside of you. I’m so excited to share this teaser from my subscription podcast with you. In this episode, I talk to Jen and Floyd about taking things to the next level. I’ve been working with them for a couple of years now and the change has been amazing. But now they’re ready to go to the next level with their sex life. Listen in to see what that means for them and what questions they have as they do it. Are you ready to go to the next level?0 comments0
- Episode 254 - How Can I Get My Wife to Develop Her Sexual-Self?How do I get my wife to develop her sexual self? That is probably one of the most common questions I get from husbands. This question makes the assumption that if I just say the right thing in the right way their eyes will be opened and all will be right in my world. But that is not usually the case. And what it actually ends up doing is creating more unhealthy pressure. So, how do you create healthy pressure? Listen to this episode to find out.0 comments0
- Sex for Saints Feb 24 · 54m Episode 253 - Consenting to Unwanted Sex: An Interview with Dr. Cami HurstIn this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Cami Hurst about her research into consenting to unwanted sex. This research is ground breaking in understanding why so many middle aged women have no libido. I am so happy to be able to share both what she found in her research and also what to do about it. Cami Hurst, LAMFT, is a sex and relationship therapist in Meridian, ID. Cami operates a private practice offering therapy, coaching, and online small group education. She is a founder and current President of the Idaho Association of Sexual Health Professionals (ISHP). She holds a PhD in Clinical Sexology and a Master’s Degree in Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapy. Cami is passionate about helping couples and individuals improve their sexual health. You can find the slides that we reference in the show here. Find Cami on: Her website - https://camihurst.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.camihurst/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/camijill/ Her podcast, Sex Therapy 101 - https://camihurst.com/sex-therapy-101-podcast0 comments0
- Episode 252 - A Transactional versus Relational MarriageMy clients often have transactional relationships with their spouses without even realizing it. In this episode, I want to explain what a transactional marriage is, why we don’t want it and what we want instead. I was recently reminded that people often think of our relationship with our Heavenly Father as transactional when all He wants is a relationship with us. As we pattern our lives after our Heavenly Parents, we can come to realize that the relationship is the most important part of our marriages as well. Let’s talk about transactional vs relational marriages.0 comments0
- Episode 251 - Empowered SexualityWhat is empowerment? More importantly, how can we be sexually empowered? In this episode, we’re going to not only answer these questions, but also how to know if we are sexually empowered or if we’re just seeking outside validation. Sexual empowerment feels differently for everyone which is why it’s something we evaluate for ourselves rather than have someone else tell us. Listen to find out how to be empowered sexually.0 comments0
- Episode 250 - Becoming the Hero of Your Own Story: An Interview with Joey MascioIn this episode, I’m speaking with Joey Mascio. He is a fellow life coach and good friend who normally works with teens helping them become the hero of their own story. But today we’re taking it a step further. A lot of what we think about ourselves comes from when we were teenagers. So we too need to find a way to become the heroes of our stories! Whether you were a teenager once or are raising a teenager, this is a must listen episode! You can find Joey at: His website: http://www.sidekicktohero.com/ His Instagram account just for teens: https://www.instagram.com/sidekicktohero/ His Instagram account for parents: https://www.instagram.com/joey_sidekicktohero/ Or his podcast, Secrets for an Awesome Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secrets-for-an-awesome-life/id15044929000 comments0
- Episode 249 - Overcoming Sexual Shame || Embracing You TeaserI’m excited to share with you a teaser for my new subscription podcast, Embracing You. In this Embracing You episode, I talk to Emily about how shame is affecting her sex life. We discuss where this shame comes from and some ways to get over it. Sexual shame is something I see a lot in my clients, especially in our conservative Christian culture, even though we don’t always see it as shame. Listen in as I teach Emily what she can do to stop letting the shame keep her from getting what she truly wants. If you like what you hear, join me in the Embracing You podcast by going to amandalouder.com/embracingyoupod0 comments0
- Episode 248 DisclaimerIn this episode, we are discussing a clothing optional resort. When I originally interviewed this couple, I did not know which resort they went to. I've since learned that not only is this a clothing optional resort, but also has options for public sexual activity. I want you to know that I am not endorsing this resort or their choices. For my full explanation, please listen to the bonus episode below before listening to the full episode.0 comments0
- Episode 248 - Is Public Nudity Ok?I often get emails from listeners asking about how nudity and modesty work together. Now, I don’t have all of the answers, but in this episode, I speak with a couple who went to a clothing optional resort. We talked about why they chose to do it, what was surprising, what was not, and would they do it again. I also ask them the question, “How does this align with your integrity?” I loved their answer and you will too! I hope that this episode can spur you into thinking about things a little differently.0 comments0
- Episode 247 - Enthusiastic ConsentWhat is enthusiastic consent and why do we need to talk about it? That’s what we’re going to delve into in this episode. We have to enthusiastically consent to sex every single time. Just laying there and letting him do whatever he wants isn’t enthusiastic consent. Listen in to see how to give enthusiastic consent and how much better it can make your sex life.0 comments0
- Episode 246 - What is a Covenant Marriage? - An Interview with Aimée GianniIn this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. So often we stay in our broken marriages because we made a covenant. But what if doing that is actually breaking your covenant? Aimée offers some amazing things to think about if we are at the point where we are thinking about divorce. Even if we’re happy in your marriage, her advice can help us progress along the path. You can find Aimée Gianni at: https://aimeegianni.com/ Instagram: @ aimeegiannims Love Notes Sign Up: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63925632df727ca7117b05f50 comments0
- Episode 245 - How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal HansenIn this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict actually builds intimacy in your marriage. I know this sounds counter intuitive, but it really does work. We all want to feel connected and when we try to avoid conflict, that creates a wedge in our relationships. Crystal shares with us Gottman’s Four Horsemen of conflict and the antidotes for each one. This episode is a great way to start thinking about who we want to be in our marriages next year. You can find Crystal Hansen at: http://crystalhansencoaching.com/ Instagram: @crystalhansen_ New Podcast: Couples in Conflict0 comments0
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